"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So LTR is on the cards...however I'd be the girls first...

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Dan08

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LTR is on the cards with a good friend of mine, we get on well, she's fun and I like her. I'm torn between dating her and taking it further however, mainly because of my own insecurities and a few other things.

I'd be this girls first bf, I'd take her V plates etc. and it's a whole lotta pressure I'm not use to dealing with which makes me hesitate...plus she's incredibly naive in regards to relationships (never had one etc.) and sex of which she has no experience in.

Second to that is the fact I've been a ONS/FWB guy since my last serious relationship a few years ago and god knows if I even remember what to do in a relationship haha.

Final point is that it would become a Long distance shindig (3 hours) from middle of the year onwards.

All that said however I think it could be some great fun if it were to go ahead.

Break it down for me guys ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No.Danny

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You know the answer. You've made a decision already, what do you want a few guys who know nothing about you and your relationship to decide for you?
Do what your gut tells you and never look back
 
Poon King

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Remove the pedestal first of all.

Second.. there is not a woman on earth over age 12 who is naive about relationships unless she is mentally retarded or has some other brain damage. Women eat relationships for breakfast. They breath, sleep and think relationships 24/7. The only naive one here is you. :crackup:

And this illusion of the innocent/naive female is how most men get manipulated into being beta b!tches and white knights.

Snap out of it. You are in blue pill delusion. It doesn't matter if she is a virgin. She knows more about men, pen!ses and sex than you do. Women FAKE innocence to seduce men. This is how they get a man to commit and put her needs before his own. This belief that she is dumb and weak. WRONG.

Only once you become a real plate spinner and f*ck women from all walks of life will you start to realize how full of sh!t they are. I've seen so many women bullsh!t their boyfriends and husbands.. acting dumb and weak while they get dirty with me in secret.

All that matters in this situation (and all situations with women) is what YOU want.
 
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