"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so like, LTRs?

Mintyfresh

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so like yeah, in your opinions do the rules completely change when one enters a LTR?

For the first time I'm in a relationship i actually want to be in and actually really care about the girl. Just want some input on simple things. Is it alright to compliment your girlfriend frequently if you really mean it? Should i still be trying to act busy all the time and be making sure shes putting in more effort than me? Should i be faking alphaness?

Just looking for some experienced insight i guess...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SmoothTalker

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I hate to turn into one of those cynics I've always disagreed with on this site, but no.

Keep the power, keep making her work for it, limit the compliments, ie, act like the same ****y SOB who doesn't give a **** that she liked to begin with.

Otherwise, girls will lose all respect for you if you give them the opportunity. Take it from someone that knows first hand.

I had a girl crazy over me in the beginning, then I relaxed, and by the end she couldn't give a ****, eager to go **** around with some random club guys.

The vast majority of girls are secretly *****es man, protect yourself and don't take any ****.
 
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