"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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so like, LTRs?

Mintyfresh

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so like yeah, in your opinions do the rules completely change when one enters a LTR?

For the first time I'm in a relationship i actually want to be in and actually really care about the girl. Just want some input on simple things. Is it alright to compliment your girlfriend frequently if you really mean it? Should i still be trying to act busy all the time and be making sure shes putting in more effort than me? Should i be faking alphaness?

Just looking for some experienced insight i guess...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SmoothTalker

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I hate to turn into one of those cynics I've always disagreed with on this site, but no.

Keep the power, keep making her work for it, limit the compliments, ie, act like the same ****y SOB who doesn't give a **** that she liked to begin with.

Otherwise, girls will lose all respect for you if you give them the opportunity. Take it from someone that knows first hand.

I had a girl crazy over me in the beginning, then I relaxed, and by the end she couldn't give a ****, eager to go **** around with some random club guys.

The vast majority of girls are secretly *****es man, protect yourself and don't take any ****.
 
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