Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Last week I kind took the hardest decision in my life... Leave my job, disconnect from family and build everything from zero.
Reason: I couldn't handling the threats and the defamation that was happening. I don't know what happen in my family, but its quite common... I read similar stories here and on reddit.
Some examples: if I liked swimming, my dad got angry and said I was wasting my life. If I want to become a musician, that was wrong cause I would become a drug addicted (that happened to my sister, funny that he always told I was the one to be addicted to drugs!)... Whenever I say no, to keep my own identity... He tried to control me. Until I grow old... But now, the fight got worse with the defamation campaign and he started to create some absurd stuffs about me to everyone around.
Now that I leave that company and I'm preparing to leave his home he allowed me to live... He started to come to my family, saying that he is really worried about me, that I took the decision and hope it works... That he will sell this house I live and buy a cheaper one (now he wants to do that, as I suggested before). And the funny fact... he is saying that he is going to give me the money of that house (but before that, he said no and decided that after selling would split into 3 - my dad, myself and my sister). I wanted to move to a small house (this one has to houses in that place only for me) and as this was my heritage house, I would like to invest into something else and live in a small place to save money.
Sometimes I think they are trying to play the victims and pretend they are really sad to everyone so they stay against me. But I remember everything... even my dad trying to convince the mother of my son to go to court to increase child support, after telling her and everyone he knows I'm psyco, sociopath, etc... And man, I paid R$900 of child support + healthcare plan. Now that I left, he told the same to her...
It's a weird sensation, but I need to free myself... And it seems they will try some stuffs to knock me down. I was crying the first days but now my mind if getting clear and I'm working hard on some solution. Also looking for a place to live until I can restructure my life and finances and buy my own house.
I don't even now how I took this decision, I just did it... It seems I got really tired of this game and all the energy drained. So I'm gonna work on building my own stuffs... don't want any cent from them anymore.
Reason: I couldn't handling the threats and the defamation that was happening. I don't know what happen in my family, but its quite common... I read similar stories here and on reddit.
Some examples: if I liked swimming, my dad got angry and said I was wasting my life. If I want to become a musician, that was wrong cause I would become a drug addicted (that happened to my sister, funny that he always told I was the one to be addicted to drugs!)... Whenever I say no, to keep my own identity... He tried to control me. Until I grow old... But now, the fight got worse with the defamation campaign and he started to create some absurd stuffs about me to everyone around.
Now that I leave that company and I'm preparing to leave his home he allowed me to live... He started to come to my family, saying that he is really worried about me, that I took the decision and hope it works... That he will sell this house I live and buy a cheaper one (now he wants to do that, as I suggested before). And the funny fact... he is saying that he is going to give me the money of that house (but before that, he said no and decided that after selling would split into 3 - my dad, myself and my sister). I wanted to move to a small house (this one has to houses in that place only for me) and as this was my heritage house, I would like to invest into something else and live in a small place to save money.
Sometimes I think they are trying to play the victims and pretend they are really sad to everyone so they stay against me. But I remember everything... even my dad trying to convince the mother of my son to go to court to increase child support, after telling her and everyone he knows I'm psyco, sociopath, etc... And man, I paid R$900 of child support + healthcare plan. Now that I left, he told the same to her...
It's a weird sensation, but I need to free myself... And it seems they will try some stuffs to knock me down. I was crying the first days but now my mind if getting clear and I'm working hard on some solution. Also looking for a place to live until I can restructure my life and finances and buy my own house.
I don't even now how I took this decision, I just did it... It seems I got really tired of this game and all the energy drained. So I'm gonna work on building my own stuffs... don't want any cent from them anymore.
