So I've been blind, stupid, immature...not a DJ

[mpimpin]

Some of you will probably remember my marriage threads etc. Well I was totally swept up in my old oneitis who I somehow actually gave it a shot with after four years.

Now I'm probably going to get torn apart by most of you, but I'm not a KJ and I won't hide the truth from you. We all fvck up sometimes.

I was actually considering getting married. I was smart enough not to go through with proposing just yet though. I realized my education, business, etc. didn't need to be flipped upside down for this girl. So I suppose I did something smart.

She was crazy. Everytime I gave advice to a friend or offered a friend some part time work for a night she would be on my case about it. Always made me feel in adequate. Didn't give me what I needed in any form especially physically (hence the marriage rush she kept promising to turn her body over to her husband. She is extremely religious)

Every rule I ever set for myself I broke. What do I have to show for it? Nothing. Haven't even learned anything new that I didn't learn going through this years ago. Just a refresher lesson though, which I suppose is good in a way.

I wouldn't back down once about giving a friend a job for ONE night nothing permanent and she ended things.

I know its time to rebuild. It's rough and been a rough week. Any words of encouragement would be appreciated.

Thanks SS and Good luck to everyone in their own lives.

Edit* I have made two dates with two girls from high school I ran into at the mall and Wal-mart so I am back on the horse. Just feeling really beaten and tired...

 

[Desdinova]

There's times in your life where you're gonna have to make some large changes. What I've done is keep telling myself "I've been through worse and have made it through, and I'll fvcking do it again!" Remain as positive as you can throughout the whole thing, and you'll pull through with flying colors.

A woman should compliment her man. A woman who is a burden or tears away at him is not a compliment - she's a fvcking useless b1tch. One thing that I've lived by since I learned the ways of the DJ is that a woman should add to your overall happiness. If she starts taking away from your overall happiness, it's time to get rid of her.

 

[Bible_Belt]

There are plenty of women out there, enough so that you don't need to be with a b!tch.

 

[Quiksilver]

Good work realizing the situation... some dudes might go to her, crying to see her again. Remember to make a list of everything you're looking for in a girl, and screen them rigorously! When I started to compromise on who I dated, my life got turned upside down by girls, tainted by them almost. High standards, accept nothing less.

Something tells me this won't be the last time she tries to talk to you.

We all fvck up sometimes.

You more than most

later bud

 

[mpimpin]

You more than most

later bud

LOL! Probably true.

 

[SmoothTalker]

I don't understand, why did it bother her so much when you gave your friends work? I mean if you guys were tight for money and you were just giving it away to friends, then maybe... but if they're working for it, what's the problem?

Crazy indeed.

 

[mpimpin]

I don't understand, why did it bother her so much when you gave your friends work? I mean if you guys were tight for money and you were just giving it away to friends, then maybe... but if they're working for it, what's the problem?

Crazy indeed.

Exactly! His best friend actually just gave him a couple hundred dollars and his girlfriend gave him money. He ended up not even needing it. I provided him with work and I needed help at the time.

Very crazy

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey mpimpin it's going to be rough for sure but at least she threw herself out of your life. Girls that damaged are never worth it.

So get back on it, we need reading material !
Stay strong bro.

 

[MetalFortress]

Sounds like a headcase. I'm still confused - why would she have been up in arms about you giving him work?