"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So it's all about being alpha then huh???

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After reading this, http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/10/28/vision-of-a-feminist-utopia/

and this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153253

I feel all that reinforces what I already know,the alpha has the power,is in control,get's his pick of the women etc right? Well,what if you are not? Does that mean less of a chance in the dating game/gene pool? What if you are not alpha,nor beta,as in not the most powerful one at the top,but not an asskissing doormat who submits to everyone etc? I mean,this is where I have been confused the most about things. I mean what,sleep around with all the women,or get married and start a family? But of course,as we all have seen,even that has been set up against us. What if you're the guy with neither. Neither a steady regular gf,or a number of women you see on a regular basis? Where is the balance? How do you "fight the matrix" as described on here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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