"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So it's all about being alpha then huh???

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After reading this, http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/10/28/vision-of-a-feminist-utopia/

and this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153253

I feel all that reinforces what I already know,the alpha has the power,is in control,get's his pick of the women etc right? Well,what if you are not? Does that mean less of a chance in the dating game/gene pool? What if you are not alpha,nor beta,as in not the most powerful one at the top,but not an asskissing doormat who submits to everyone etc? I mean,this is where I have been confused the most about things. I mean what,sleep around with all the women,or get married and start a family? But of course,as we all have seen,even that has been set up against us. What if you're the guy with neither. Neither a steady regular gf,or a number of women you see on a regular basis? Where is the balance? How do you "fight the matrix" as described on here?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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