Caldus
Senior Don Juan
...but exactly what kind?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So it's all about attitude and confidence...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Page3lover2
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Here's my interpretation.
You are very self-assured. Decisive, know what you are doing is 100% correct. Friendly but no overtly so, don't get flustered by a HB. Engaging conversationalist, keen one minute, cold the next. Well presented, likeable, funny, charming. These are all attributes that will help you game IMO.
You are very self-assured. Decisive, know what you are doing is 100% correct. Friendly but no overtly so, don't get flustered by a HB. Engaging conversationalist, keen one minute, cold the next. Well presented, likeable, funny, charming. These are all attributes that will help you game IMO.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
What does well-presented mean exactly?Originally posted by Page3lover2
Here's my interpretation.
You are very self-assured. Decisive, know what you are doing is 100% correct. Friendly but no overtly so, don't get flustered by a HB. Engaging conversationalist, keen one minute, cold the next. Well presented, likeable, funny, charming. These are all attributes that will help you game IMO.
Page3lover2
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The way you dress - make it look as though you've taken time to look good. Not too much time but just enough for the desired look.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
What if you're just the type of guy that likes to wear jeans and a t-shirt? I don't like wearing that preppy stuff.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
instead of a plain t-shirt(one color) find a designer shirt,with polo across the chest or some sort or design. or you could buy polo shirts with patterns and such on them.i prefer a solid color shirt with a long or short sleeve button up over it iwith jean shorts or pants. always shower,wear cologne,and keep the hair short and clean. i recently had a interview and didnt even think about how i dressed cause im so used to dressing sharp now,the interviewer was like "i really apreciate you dressing up,you look really sharp" and i had the job.presentation shows how you think of yourself.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
You live your life the way you want to live it. You don't live it based on others expectations or wants.
Your happiness (or otherwise) is not based on women - the lack of - or the glut of.
You do the best with what you have - and you are not intimidated by others.
confidence without arrigance.
Your happiness (or otherwise) is not based on women - the lack of - or the glut of.
You do the best with what you have - and you are not intimidated by others.
confidence without arrigance.
PVSSY-EATER
Banned
Once again, if you do not connect with a girl on a sexual level...then you can have so much confidence its pouring out your azz, you will still not get anywhere...Read my thread, do this and you will have puzzy coming from everywhere.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Sorry but I think most of those type of clothes are just not for me. I'd rather stick to what I like. If girls don't like it then they probably aren't for me anyway.Originally posted by blinkwatt
instead of a plain t-shirt(one color) find a designer shirt,with polo across the chest or some sort or design. or you could buy polo shirts with patterns and such on them.i prefer a solid color shirt with a long or short sleeve button up over it iwith jean shorts or pants. always shower,wear cologne,and keep the hair short and clean. i recently had a interview and didnt even think about how i dressed cause im so used to dressing sharp now,the interviewer was like "i really apreciate you dressing up,you look really sharp" and i had the job.presentation shows how you think of yourself.
And yes I agree with the last poster: you can have all of the confidence in the world in every area in the world but still not get women. Sometimes I feel like that.