Caldus
Senior Don Juan
...but exactly what kind?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So it's all about attitude and confidence...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Page3lover2
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Here's my interpretation.
You are very self-assured. Decisive, know what you are doing is 100% correct. Friendly but no overtly so, don't get flustered by a HB. Engaging conversationalist, keen one minute, cold the next. Well presented, likeable, funny, charming. These are all attributes that will help you game IMO.
You are very self-assured. Decisive, know what you are doing is 100% correct. Friendly but no overtly so, don't get flustered by a HB. Engaging conversationalist, keen one minute, cold the next. Well presented, likeable, funny, charming. These are all attributes that will help you game IMO.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
What does well-presented mean exactly?Originally posted by Page3lover2
Here's my interpretation.
You are very self-assured. Decisive, know what you are doing is 100% correct. Friendly but no overtly so, don't get flustered by a HB. Engaging conversationalist, keen one minute, cold the next. Well presented, likeable, funny, charming. These are all attributes that will help you game IMO.
Page3lover2
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The way you dress - make it look as though you've taken time to look good. Not too much time but just enough for the desired look.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
What if you're just the type of guy that likes to wear jeans and a t-shirt? I don't like wearing that preppy stuff.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
instead of a plain t-shirt(one color) find a designer shirt,with polo across the chest or some sort or design. or you could buy polo shirts with patterns and such on them.i prefer a solid color shirt with a long or short sleeve button up over it iwith jean shorts or pants. always shower,wear cologne,and keep the hair short and clean. i recently had a interview and didnt even think about how i dressed cause im so used to dressing sharp now,the interviewer was like "i really apreciate you dressing up,you look really sharp" and i had the job.presentation shows how you think of yourself.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
You live your life the way you want to live it. You don't live it based on others expectations or wants.
Your happiness (or otherwise) is not based on women - the lack of - or the glut of.
You do the best with what you have - and you are not intimidated by others.
confidence without arrigance.
Your happiness (or otherwise) is not based on women - the lack of - or the glut of.
You do the best with what you have - and you are not intimidated by others.
confidence without arrigance.
PVSSY-EATER
Banned
Once again, if you do not connect with a girl on a sexual level...then you can have so much confidence its pouring out your azz, you will still not get anywhere...Read my thread, do this and you will have puzzy coming from everywhere.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Sorry but I think most of those type of clothes are just not for me. I'd rather stick to what I like. If girls don't like it then they probably aren't for me anyway.Originally posted by blinkwatt
instead of a plain t-shirt(one color) find a designer shirt,with polo across the chest or some sort or design. or you could buy polo shirts with patterns and such on them.i prefer a solid color shirt with a long or short sleeve button up over it iwith jean shorts or pants. always shower,wear cologne,and keep the hair short and clean. i recently had a interview and didnt even think about how i dressed cause im so used to dressing sharp now,the interviewer was like "i really apreciate you dressing up,you look really sharp" and i had the job.presentation shows how you think of yourself.
And yes I agree with the last poster: you can have all of the confidence in the world in every area in the world but still not get women. Sometimes I feel like that.