“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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so it finally happened ... my gf isn't attracted anymore .. what now?

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So I basically spent this entire week getting a hold of her and always getting the same answer back in one form or another. I don't know why I kept doing it. I guess I never killed the inner AFC. Tonight's last txt from her sealed it for me, along the lines of:

"as of right now I think we made the right choice when we broke up"

I'm not even sure why I'm posting this here other than to vent about the fact that everything is kind of the downswing right now. I'm still sick, none of my job searching is working (which is depressing in its own right) and what successes I have made don't feel significant to me.

Don't you love it how a woman leaves you right when you're at the bottom?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't you love it how a woman leaves you right when you're at the bottom?

fwiw, my last ex, whom I stupidly thought I would marry, left me as soon as she gave me an std. Women can be grand, let me tell you, but fwiw and if it helps, pretty much all of have been there before. Good luck.
 
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muscleman said:
Don't you love it how a woman leaves you right when you're at the bottom?
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I'm not trying to be an ass but the way you phrased that question made me think...is it because you're at the bottom that she left you?

I'm not saying that every time you are on a job search that a woman will leave you. I'm wondering if it's because the fact that you feel that you're at the bottom. A lot of guys who lose their jobs or have to look for new ones can probably remain "on top". What do you think?

Also, I'm sorry to see that you have been in contact with her. I thought you did the right thing by walking away with your dignity instead of buying into her "take a break" mumbo jumbo.

Keep your head up man.
 
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backbreaker said:
Our job as humans is to hold on to the thoughts of what we want, make it absolutely clear in our minds what we want, and from what we start to invoke one of the greatest laws in the universe, and that’s the law of attraction. You become what you think about most, but you also attract what you think about most.



The law of attraction is really obedient. When you think of the things that you want, and you focus on them with all of your intention, then the law of attraction will give you exactly what you want, every time. When you focu on the things you don’t want- “I don’t want to be late, I don’t’ want to be late”- the law of attraction doesn’t hear that you don’t want it. It manifests the things that you ‘re thinking of, and so it’s going to show up over and over and over again. The law of attraction is not biased to wants or don’t wants. When you focus on something, no matter what it happesn to be, you really are calling that into existence
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Do you REALLY believe this? It's like astrology or tarot!!! Chick stuff!!!

It is true that a positive attitude is good, and helpful, but jeez louise, are you a GIRL? The chicks on myspace have this "law of attraction"/"the secret" stuff all over their pages!

C'mon, man - butch up!!! This is the real world!! We gotta go DO!!!
 
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muscleman said:
I'm just trying to figure out where I went wrong (what lost the attraction).
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You fool!! Why do you assume that you did wrong and not affirm the reality that you were merely the next pimp in line!!!!

Say "No" to hos!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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aliasguy said:
Do you REALLY believe this? It's like astrology or tarot!!! Chick stuff!!!

It is true that a positive attitude is good, and helpful, but jeez louise, are you a GIRL? The chicks on myspace have this "law of attraction"/"the secret" stuff all over their pages!

C'mon, man - butch up!!! This is the real world!! We gotta go DO!!!
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Its actually a science. Some of the greatest minds ever believed it like Einstein etc. Astrology is a joke.
 
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I told my buddy about you and he did a podcast show on your situtation and posted your post on his forum so his crew can analyze it.

You probably don't want to hear what he had to say due to his raw nature, but I think you can grow from it.

I got his advice real hard one time when I most needed it. It hurt but I learned.

http://media.libsyn.com/media/playersupreme/stand_as_a_man.mp3

I hope you find a new girl real fast.

CraigMack,
 
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