so is this a good thing?

[stoner1129]

well me, my gf, and some other guy were hanging out at a wrestling tournament, and one of my gfs friends comes over and starts talking to her. i'm sitting behind all three of them and while they're talking the other guy starts like poking her and being his stupid self in a funny way, and my gfs friend tell me that she would be jealous if she was me. she then asks me if i was jealous and i told her no that i didn't really care, so that ended up bothering my gf. well she told my friend that it bothered her that i didn't care but she never told me that, so did i do the right thing in saying that i didn't care or should i have showed that i did care or said that i did??

really it didn't bother me but i'm jw.

 

[redspicyflag]

If it didn't bother you

this post wouldn't be here

but...

93% of what you say is nonverbal

from this

I get a negative view

 

[stoner1129]

yeah forget that last part about me not caring, but was it right to say that, i know she's worried now that i'm going to leave or something kind of because of that, and no i didn't say it make here scared i just thought that it would show that i'm not insecure or something, so was it the right thing to do or say?

 

[War Against Betaism]

You should have cared a little bit. Being a little bit jealous isn't a bad thing. While it's a good thing to show you're not insecure, not caring at all kind of puts you in that "player" mold.