"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So I'm pretty sure I'm going to lose my virginity ...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know that my first few times, it actually took me an incredibly long time to get off, the whole experience being so different and unfamiliar to me than the masturbating I had been used to.
And this way if you *** to early, there's a good chance you'll be able to go again after a little bit! (Some people can even go right away again). And there are other ways to make sure she is satisfied (oral, fingering).
Most importantly, don't worry/think about "being good" too much. Just have fun! Who really cares if you are "good"? There are tons of other girls out there, and besides, she'll probably be pretty understanding. Especially if she knows it's your first time.... and even if not: she knows it's your first time with her and I find it usually takes a few times to really get used to a girl anyways (though perhaps if you've layed many more girls than I have, you'll have mastered things so well as to be able to be "great" with any new one that comes along).
But yeah, bottom line: relax and have some fun!! Whole point really....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Most importantly, don't rush things, trust your gut, and don't worry. Just enjoy yourself, and you'll have more chances to become a master.
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finally i found someone like me (i only had sex once [yet], and i had some alcohol on my blood, but i noticed that to)forward said:
i think it's not good to masturbate, it will not "taste" the same. but it could be good to who is extremely sensitive down there.
Just do your best, enjoy and like likelychump said:
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Read her body language for cues and also ask her what feels good. They're all different."
in my opinion, this is one of greatest things that a girl can give us: her unconscious guidance to what to do, if you know what i mean.
like i said, i only had sex once, but you don't need to have it to learn some things.
