“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So I'm pretty sure I'm going to lose my virginity ...

faiNt`

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Cousin's friend .. I know she wants me bad .. we're hanging out on Monday. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I know everyone sucks the first time, but less things to help me suck less would be great.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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faiNt`

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Yeah I heard that helps you last longer .. should help .. anything else?
 

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I'd actually consider not jerking off beforehand. Sometimes guys can get nervous (especially their first time) and get "stage freight" or "performance anxiety". Basically their thinking/worrying too much rather than getting lost in the sensual and all, and have trouble getting/keeping it up. NOT having jerked off recently will decrease this.

I know that my first few times, it actually took me an incredibly long time to get off, the whole experience being so different and unfamiliar to me than the masturbating I had been used to.

And this way if you *** to early, there's a good chance you'll be able to go again after a little bit! (Some people can even go right away again). And there are other ways to make sure she is satisfied (oral, fingering).

Most importantly, don't worry/think about "being good" too much. Just have fun! Who really cares if you are "good"? There are tons of other girls out there, and besides, she'll probably be pretty understanding. Especially if she knows it's your first time.... and even if not: she knows it's your first time with her and I find it usually takes a few times to really get used to a girl anyways (though perhaps if you've layed many more girls than I have, you'll have mastered things so well as to be able to be "great" with any new one that comes along).

But yeah, bottom line: relax and have some fun!! Whole point really....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Know how to use a condom. Bring extras. Make sure she's on the pill... what i'm getting at here is that getting her preggers would probably kill most of your dreams and aspirations. Other than that, try to get her off before with oral so she won't have a bad experience of it too (that is, of course, if you don't turn out to be a natural).
 

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Good points here. Know how to use a condom and bring extras. I'd say don't jerk off and do go for a second time after the first. You'll definitely *** fast the first time. Don't sweat it. Kissing's probably more important than penetration (at least the first time you have sex with any girl) so make sure you do a lot of that. Don't focus too much on any point on her. Touch her and kiss her all over and you'll hopefully figure out an erogenous zone or two, but don't worry if you don't. Fingering and/or oral are absolutely necessary precursors to get her excited (and you'd do well to get her off that way at some point too). I'd say start out with missionary. She'll like the closeness and kissing. Some girls are resistant to doggy-style, which I still don't understand. Read her body language for cues and also ask her what feels good. They're all different.

Most importantly, don't rush things, trust your gut, and don't worry. Just enjoy yourself, and you'll have more chances to become a master.
 

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very good advice: bring condoms. While you're going down on her then you put it on. A good tip would be to practice putting one on. If she sees that condom, there will be no sex. Most importantly dont say let's have sex, be subtle but you are expected to lead.
 

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forward said:
I know that my first few times, it actually took me an incredibly long time to get off, the whole experience being so different and unfamiliar to me than the masturbating I had been used to.
finally i found someone like me (i only had sex once [yet], and i had some alcohol on my blood, but i noticed that to)

i think it's not good to masturbate, it will not "taste" the same. but it could be good to who is extremely sensitive down there.

Just do your best, enjoy and like likelychump said:
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Read her body language
for cues and also ask her what feels good. They're all different."
in my opinion, this is one of greatest things that a girl can give us: her unconscious guidance to what to do, if you know what i mean.


like i said, i only had sex once, but you don't need to have it to learn some things.

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