You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm really just an alcoholic I guess. I normally avoid hard drugs.
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Bro, get help for both. At 30, you shouldn't be putting yourself through this. It will not end well if you do not seek help. A good friend of my got hooked on hard drugs. He offed himself while talking to me on the phone. He thought Russian Roulette with a loaded gun would be fun for himself. He was wrong. Don't be that guy. You're better than that.
Once you fall behind the ball its hard to catch up again. I always live hard. My jobs are always hard. I drink hard. I'm not sure what to do sometimes. I know a place i can go though in Florida. I'm an alcoholic. I just hate asking for help. I hate to admit i need it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wow stereotypes. I bet some do.
Replace the destructive hobbies with constructive ones. You probably have heaps of passion and intensity.
The first step is usually the hardest. Sometimes, we cannot do everything on our own. No shame in asking for help to break an addiction. There's also AA (http://www.aa.org/) and NA (http://www.na.org/) to consider as well.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Feeding what?
You really think I'm lying? Dude. Cmon
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sunbtch
yes, based on his other posts, he partakes in substances
Not accusing, etc, but this is all a bit of a stereotype. In my experience all races, shades and wealth classes partake in any kind of drug.
Crack just hits faster then powder. Good crack is good crack and will make your ears ring. All it is, is basically freebase but it was originally called "ready rock".
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
