"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I'm laying in a hotel room with my first black girl

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So I was sleeping on the floor at a Hilton in a city in Wisconsin. A major city.

Finally security caught on to me after four days, but he could tell i used to be in the service and he was letting it go, but finally his boss made him confront me. He was very nice about it and. Thanked me for not trying to fight him.

I was sleeping in these bushes sometimes too and i saw a sprinkler head and put a cup over it.. Well now I know what time it turns on, around 3:29.

So i got the fvck out of there. Got a bit wet. Met this dude and ended up smoking 40$ of crack with him, but before this i walked past this black girl who said "you look like a model in my magazine" so i chilled with her for bit, smoked some crack, came back and she followed me around, smoked crack again, she waited for me.

I didn't get more.

Now I'm laying in the bed with this. Girl and I'm drunk, and idk wtf.

I blame the sprinklers. Had that sh1t not turned on i would've just kept sleeping in the bushes.

That is all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe you should sell your phone for crack then we wouldnt have to read these posts
 

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Best story ever haha. Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Smoking crack... Pathetic. Bro, stop fvcking up your life and go to rehab. You're 23 for Christ sake. No reason to act like a loser.
 

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Are you working? It might be rough but you should try saving that cash instead of buying crack so you can have your own place. Check city services to see if they can help you get on your feet. Maybe get a second job so you can save up for your place faster. Hope the best for you man.
 

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Are you working? It might be rough but you should try saving that cash instead of buying crack so you can have your own place. Check city services to see if they can help you get on your feet. Maybe get a second job so you can save up for your place faster. Hope the best for you man.
I was working. My boss is crazy and i can't put up with that sh1t. You're right though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you working? It might be rough but you should try saving that cash instead of buying crack so you can have your own place. Check city services to see if they can help you get on your feet. Maybe get a second job so you can save up for your place faster. Hope the best for you man.
Thank you for you vote of confidence. I've been drinking heavily like every day. Been planning on checking myself into detox but i just want to go on one final run. I get in a mood and i go on runs from time to time
 

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I enjoyed your post but could have done without the crack part. I hate to see any man do that to himself.
 

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So I was sleeping on the floor at a Hilton in a city in Wisconsin. A major city.

Finally security caught on to me after four days, but he could tell i used to be in the service and he was letting it go, but finally his boss made him confront me. He was very nice about it and. Thanked me for not trying to fight him.

I was sleeping in these bushes sometimes too and i saw a sprinkler head and put a cup over it.. Well now I know what time it turns on, around 3:29.

So i got the fvck out of there. Got a bit wet. Met this dude and ended up smoking 40$ of crack with him, but before this i walked past this black girl who said "you look like a model in my magazine" so i chilled with her for bit, smoked some crack, came back and she followed me around, smoked crack again, she waited for me.

I didn't get more.

Now I'm laying in the bed with this. Girl and I'm drunk, and idk wtf.

I blame the sprinklers. Had that sh1t not turned on i would've just kept sleeping in the bushes.

That is all.
Why do you think WisconSIN is a major city? It's not that big a deal. So, what type of report or message are you trying to say? Is this a field report? You were sarging in a hotel lobby and, if you are looking for a ghetto crack addicted girl then you intend to give advice on here? Is this night-game? Is the bushes better than visiting a bar or nightclub? It sounds like a more quiet venue. Think you should start a school and teach other people on here how to improve their looks so they look like a model in a magazine. What do you think about that idea? You could be the next Player Supreme?

So you lay in bed with her as friends with both your pajamas on or did you have intercourse with her? I didn't know you could get drunk from smoking crack, I thought you got stoned. Are you still stoned right now? So, was this a hot Black girl or a whale?

First field report in years.
 

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I enjoyed your post but could have done without the crack part. I hate to see any man do that to himself.
You actually buy that a 30 year old white guy smokes crack?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do you think WisconSIN is a major city? It's not that big a deal. So, what type of report or message are you trying to say? Is this a field report? You were sarging in a hotel lobby and, if you are looking for a ghetto crack addicted girl then you intend to give advice on here? Is this night-game? Is the bushes better than visiting a bar or nightclub? It sounds like a more quiet venue. Think you should start a school and teach other people on here how to improve their looks so they look like a model in a magazine. What do you think about that idea? You could be the next Player Supreme?

So you lay in bed with her as friends with both your pajamas on or did you have intercourse with her? I didn't know you could get drunk from smoking crack, I thought you got stoned. Are you still stoned right now? So, was this a hot Black girl or a whale?

First field report in years.
Shes a 5/10 but i was litterally just walking down the sidewalk and she opened me. Then i met they guy and he asked me if i smoked/ wanted to smoke. At first i said im good.

Yes i ****ed this girl. Fat booty.

Not a whale
 

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What would keep him from it? And why would he lie to us?
It sounds like a joke post to me

And crack is supposed to be a cheap low quality drug that circulates within urban ghettos... Poor white people as far as I know usually live in rural ghettos(like a trailer park), not urban ones. Whereas people with more money would usually do something more like coke

But i dunno. That's just my 2 cents.
 

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Shes a 5/10 but i was litterally just walking down the sidewalk and she opened me. Then i met they guy and he asked me if i smoked/ wanted to smoke. At first i said im good.

Yes i ****ed this girl. Fat booty.

Not a whale
What did this guy have anything to do with this? You are shooting fish in a barrel here. There is no bragging rights.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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