"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I'm going to a real club for the first time on Saturday. Any general suggestions?

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I'm going to a friend's 19th birthday party and it's gonna be mostly other girls there.

The even details are here

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http://www.clubzone.com/events/event31201.html

Big Up Saturday, April 15 at Plush 750 Pacific Blvd (Plaza Of Nations) Toronto’s DJ Phat Kat will be in the building after a little hiatus from Vancouver. He’s been busy tearing up the T-Dot club scene, working on his Big **** Radio show, and pumping out mad mix-cd’s. Expect to hear the hottest and latest in hip-hop, r&b, old school, soca, dancehall, crunk, 80’s, 90’s and more. Come by for your chance to cop some of these mix cd’s as he will be giving them away like crazy. Also featuring J-Swing, Flipout, Goodfellas,GMAN, Kid Carson and The Beat Street Squad..

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I've been to clubs when I was vacationing in Europe and I found it a bit intimidating since me and my friends were pretty much the only 18 year olds there. (I'm 19 now)

I know I'm being a bit too general but I don't know what to expect from the clubs here in Vancouver and the hip hop scene. Any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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body language is something you should definitely be aware of. when i have the time, i'll post idea's that i always keep in mind
 
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Learn to C-Walk, and ull definetly be crunkin with a group surrounding u. Ive done it before. C walk isnt only for crips... The dance looks very nice too. People will be very impressed. If you are afraid to crip walk then learn Clown Walk.
 
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Get jiggy wit it, and make sure you don't hurt nobody. Oh yeah, and don't forget to watch all the rappers. They look funny when they dance.
 
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My advice would be to go there with the intention of having fun, not only with the intention of picking up. Dont become one of those people who only go out clubbing for the 'girls', once you are more familiar with the environment opportunities will present themselves.

Also, always be talking to someone or engaging in some action. Avoid being a guy who watches everyone dance from the outside. Hope that makes sense, have fun!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DasaniWater said:
Learn to C-Walk, and ull definetly be crunkin with a group surrounding u. Ive done it before. C walk isnt only for crips... The dance looks very nice too. People will be very impressed. If you are afraid to crip walk then learn Clown Walk.
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Please don't do this.
 
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