"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I'm going to a real club for the first time on Saturday. Any general suggestions?

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I'm going to a friend's 19th birthday party and it's gonna be mostly other girls there.

The even details are here

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http://www.clubzone.com/events/event31201.html

Big Up Saturday, April 15 at Plush 750 Pacific Blvd (Plaza Of Nations) Toronto’s DJ Phat Kat will be in the building after a little hiatus from Vancouver. He’s been busy tearing up the T-Dot club scene, working on his Big **** Radio show, and pumping out mad mix-cd’s. Expect to hear the hottest and latest in hip-hop, r&b, old school, soca, dancehall, crunk, 80’s, 90’s and more. Come by for your chance to cop some of these mix cd’s as he will be giving them away like crazy. Also featuring J-Swing, Flipout, Goodfellas,GMAN, Kid Carson and The Beat Street Squad..

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I've been to clubs when I was vacationing in Europe and I found it a bit intimidating since me and my friends were pretty much the only 18 year olds there. (I'm 19 now)

I know I'm being a bit too general but I don't know what to expect from the clubs here in Vancouver and the hip hop scene. Any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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body language is something you should definitely be aware of. when i have the time, i'll post idea's that i always keep in mind
 
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Learn to C-Walk, and ull definetly be crunkin with a group surrounding u. Ive done it before. C walk isnt only for crips... The dance looks very nice too. People will be very impressed. If you are afraid to crip walk then learn Clown Walk.
 
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Get jiggy wit it, and make sure you don't hurt nobody. Oh yeah, and don't forget to watch all the rappers. They look funny when they dance.
 
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My advice would be to go there with the intention of having fun, not only with the intention of picking up. Dont become one of those people who only go out clubbing for the 'girls', once you are more familiar with the environment opportunities will present themselves.

Also, always be talking to someone or engaging in some action. Avoid being a guy who watches everyone dance from the outside. Hope that makes sense, have fun!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DasaniWater said:
Learn to C-Walk, and ull definetly be crunkin with a group surrounding u. Ive done it before. C walk isnt only for crips... The dance looks very nice too. People will be very impressed. If you are afraid to crip walk then learn Clown Walk.
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Please don't do this.
 
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