"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So, I'm about to ask this girl out.

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And I don't plan on doing so again if she either says no or flakes. What's the best way to communicate that?

I think it's going to break down one of two ways: she's either an attention ***** who gets off on the fact that I dig her, or she is actually interested but really shy about the whole thing.


She came to see me play a gig tonight, but left towards the end. Apparently I almost made her cry. that's why. :confused:



anyway. advice, fellas?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Made her cry? Please explain.
 
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Nonono, it was the music that almost made her cry. Apparently, she was moved.
 
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and you weren't moved to give her the c0ck? :eek:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hahaha, man.

I don't even know why, but this b!tch is kind of intimidating. Not many girls make me think twice about sh*t I say, but she does. I don't get it. it sucks.

So, I wanna take this girl out and get over this nonsense.
 
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Yuma said:
Hahaha, man.

I don't even know why, but this b!tch is kind of intimidating. Not many girls make me think twice about sh*t I say, but she does. I don't get it. it sucks.

So, I wanna take this girl out and get over this nonsense.
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A lot of guys can be suave with the average girl, but then when one "special" one comes along their brains melt. Just don't let her get in your head, she's just a normal chick like any other. What happens is that since you think so highly of her, you put way too much stock in what happens, what she thinks of you, etc. This makes you second guess everything you're saying and doing. Don't let it. Be Yuma uncensored.
 
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A lot of guys can be suave with the average girl, but then when one "special" one comes along their brains melt. Just don't let her get in your head, she's just a normal chick like any other. What happens is that since you think so highly of her, you put way too much stock in what happens, what she thinks of you, etc. This makes you second guess everything you're saying and doing. Don't let it. Be Yuma uncensored.
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Dig.

Thanks, bro. I need to start doing this sh*t the ol' fashioned way. And have some worry free fun this time. :D Thanks a million.
 
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