"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So, I'm about to ask this girl out.

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And I don't plan on doing so again if she either says no or flakes. What's the best way to communicate that?

I think it's going to break down one of two ways: she's either an attention ***** who gets off on the fact that I dig her, or she is actually interested but really shy about the whole thing.


She came to see me play a gig tonight, but left towards the end. Apparently I almost made her cry. that's why. :confused:



anyway. advice, fellas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Made her cry? Please explain.
 

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Nonono, it was the music that almost made her cry. Apparently, she was moved.
 

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and you weren't moved to give her the c0ck? :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hahaha, man.

I don't even know why, but this b!tch is kind of intimidating. Not many girls make me think twice about sh*t I say, but she does. I don't get it. it sucks.

So, I wanna take this girl out and get over this nonsense.
 

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Yuma said:
Hahaha, man.

I don't even know why, but this b!tch is kind of intimidating. Not many girls make me think twice about sh*t I say, but she does. I don't get it. it sucks.

So, I wanna take this girl out and get over this nonsense.
A lot of guys can be suave with the average girl, but then when one "special" one comes along their brains melt. Just don't let her get in your head, she's just a normal chick like any other. What happens is that since you think so highly of her, you put way too much stock in what happens, what she thinks of you, etc. This makes you second guess everything you're saying and doing. Don't let it. Be Yuma uncensored.
 

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TheBucketOfTruth said:
A lot of guys can be suave with the average girl, but then when one "special" one comes along their brains melt. Just don't let her get in your head, she's just a normal chick like any other. What happens is that since you think so highly of her, you put way too much stock in what happens, what she thinks of you, etc. This makes you second guess everything you're saying and doing. Don't let it. Be Yuma uncensored.

Dig.

Thanks, bro. I need to start doing this sh*t the ol' fashioned way. And have some worry free fun this time. :D Thanks a million.
 
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