"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So if Hot single girls are like monkeys: swing from tree to tree

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then how does anyone ever get a hot girl. Cause I notice they don't stay single long maybe two weeks then off into a 6 month relationship or more. It seems like it's a race for hot girls and if you don't catch one in the small window of being single your doomed to just average looking girls. Do you guys steal them from other dudes or what.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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They're not single because they have a bunch of AFC's as backup until something "better" comes along.

You know when they say they want some space etc.. keeping the AFC on hold (even though theres no attraction) until something better comes along.
 
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I don't buy into this. Many of the HOTTEST girls are rarely single because they constantly have so many options. If the hotter girls have a chode boyfriend (they usually do; I call them "placeholders"), they can be stolen fairly easily.

It depends on which venues you are sarging too. Loud clubs and dance bars will have more single girls than just some sports bar or a mall.

But more importantly, not "every" hot girl has a boyfriend. You may be telling yourself that in order not to face some realities. Keep pushing yourself. There are millions of single hot girls out there.
 

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And some monkeys like to hang onto one branch while sampling "bananas" from other trees.

My advice: Have a better banana
 

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woods said:
And some monkeys like to hang onto one branch while sampling "bananas" from other trees.

My advice: Have a better banana
:D:D:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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