then how does anyone ever get a hot girl. Cause I notice they don't stay single long maybe two weeks then off into a 6 month relationship or more. It seems like it's a race for hot girls and if you don't catch one in the small window of being single your doomed to just average looking girls. Do you guys steal them from other dudes or what.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So if Hot single girls are like monkeys: swing from tree to tree
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They're not single because they have a bunch of AFC's as backup until something "better" comes along.
You know when they say they want some space etc.. keeping the AFC on hold (even though theres no attraction) until something better comes along.
You know when they say they want some space etc.. keeping the AFC on hold (even though theres no attraction) until something better comes along.
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Entropy4
Don Juan
I don't buy into this. Many of the HOTTEST girls are rarely single because they constantly have so many options. If the hotter girls have a chode boyfriend (they usually do; I call them "placeholders"), they can be stolen fairly easily.
It depends on which venues you are sarging too. Loud clubs and dance bars will have more single girls than just some sports bar or a mall.
But more importantly, not "every" hot girl has a boyfriend. You may be telling yourself that in order not to face some realities. Keep pushing yourself. There are millions of single hot girls out there.
It depends on which venues you are sarging too. Loud clubs and dance bars will have more single girls than just some sports bar or a mall.
But more importantly, not "every" hot girl has a boyfriend. You may be telling yourself that in order not to face some realities. Keep pushing yourself. There are millions of single hot girls out there.
L777
Master Don Juan
woods said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.