"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I went to a Tantra Speed-Dating event...INTERESTING results

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I tell all the chicks “I got your root chakra right here baby!”

I have the book, it’s esoteric at best, one can get all of the benefits without the woowoo, if you’re an attentive partner. I do however, realize that many need manuals…

Me? I just need my curious nature.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Pierce,
"Me? I just need my curious nature"....Yup,just that and a packet of Viagra and you're Jack The Lad LOL.
 

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Hi Amsterdam,
sadly it comes to us all Young Fullah!
 

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Hi Amsterdam,
Never been much of a Pill muncher either,but Sildenafil Citrate is an exception....Its being able to put an erection on a Plaster Saint,not only improves ones sense of well being,but has a most beneficial effect on the Prostrate and Heart.....Very few Medical developments have bought more happiness to more people.
 

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No f*cking way that I would go to an event like that without having the photos of the girls before hand. I also don't date women past 32, that's my limit.

Also, no offense but no attractive, young, and childless woman would go to an event like that. They can easily get tons of matches on Tinder/Bumble/Happn.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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