"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I went to a Tantra Speed-Dating event...INTERESTING results

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I tell all the chicks “I got your root chakra right here baby!”

I have the book, it’s esoteric at best, one can get all of the benefits without the woowoo, if you’re an attentive partner. I do however, realize that many need manuals…

Me? I just need my curious nature.

:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi Pierce,
"Me? I just need my curious nature"....Yup,just that and a packet of Viagra and you're Jack The Lad LOL.
 

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Hi Amsterdam,
sadly it comes to us all Young Fullah!
 

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Hi Amsterdam,
Never been much of a Pill muncher either,but Sildenafil Citrate is an exception....Its being able to put an erection on a Plaster Saint,not only improves ones sense of well being,but has a most beneficial effect on the Prostrate and Heart.....Very few Medical developments have bought more happiness to more people.
 

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No f*cking way that I would go to an event like that without having the photos of the girls before hand. I also don't date women past 32, that's my limit.

Also, no offense but no attractive, young, and childless woman would go to an event like that. They can easily get tons of matches on Tinder/Bumble/Happn.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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