Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
I think Jesus said something like that...Rollo Tomassi said:Buy a man a hooker and you get him laid for an evening.
Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think Jesus said something like that...Rollo Tomassi said:Buy a man a hooker and you get him laid for an evening.
Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yup he did. He's a cool guyLuthor Rex said:I think Jesus said something like that...![]()
The danger is no greater or less than getting an escort who wants you to meet her at a place of her choosing. There is bound to be some risk in these types of things when it isn't exactly legal.picard said:you were lucky it was real gangbang. I read the news about a guy who was robbed of his money on this kind of Craiglist ad.
Craiglist is full of shaddy women. Gangbang is so unsafe.
Hey a guy's gotta do what a guy's gotta do. It's as simple as that. You only live once, might as well bang as many attractive women as you can, while you can. Isn't it better Maxtro resorted to that, than getting nothing at all? For all the guys who bash using prostitutes, think about that for a second. It's better to use the services of a high-end prostitute, than to get nothing at all. Like I said, you only live once, time is ticking fast, and if you're a guy who doesn't get many opportunities with attractive women, you'd be a fool not to take advantage of it.Rollo Tomassi said:Buy a man a hooker and you get him laid for an evening.
Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's never hurt my self-esteem. I'm still as confident as ever. I'm a definite prize, I know what I'm about. If I could make love to myself, I would(lol, you get the idea).kingy said:Paying for sex or going to these kind of events long-term will hurt self-esteem because you know deep down it is wrong action also you are losing self worth.
And you think those two are mutually exclusive because???Rollo Tomassi said:Buy a man a hooker and you get him laid for an evening.
Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
Good luck trying to get the 'Iron Rule Police' to even consider another point of view.taiyuu_otoko said:And you think those two are mutually exclusive because???
Sometimes getting a hooker is simply a lot easier and quicker and more convenient than "sarging."
There are some in the "community" who feel that sarging itself is an AFC trait. Purposely going out and structuring your behavior to "pick up women" somehow puts you in the category of a needy beta male, looking to say the "right" things and do the "right" actions in hopes that she will stoop down form her bloated social pedastal and allow you to seduce her.
Guys in that camp believe you should just live your life, and if you happen to see an interesting female, then you approach, qualify and filter her accordingly. If you happen to have 30 minutes to kill on the way home from work, you stop in at the rub-n-tug.
Personally I concur with Charlie Sheen's take on hookers:
"It's not that I pay them for the sex, I pay them to leave right afterward."
To each his own, I guess.
No. Being a real man means having self-dignity, self-pride....letting the mind control the body rather than living on the whim of the man downstairs. Going to a gangbang or orgy is the polar opposite of what a real man would do.Gaucho said:This dude wanted *****, he went out and got it without harming anyone in the process. He enjoyed himself. That is what everybody should do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Obviously I disagree. Letting the mind always control the body is not a good thing. The mind is the source of irrational fear. It is the reason why men are afraid to cold approach and make moves on women. The vast majority of men really have nothing to physically fear from a woman. If I somehow get into a physical fight with a chick, I would win 9 times out of 10.Darth said:No. Being a real man means having self-dignity, self-pride....letting the mind control the body rather than living on the whim of the man downstairs. Going to a gangbang or orgy is the polar opposite of what a real man would do.
Trust me, I would absolutely love a threesome or foursome with me and 2 or 3 girls. It's the most common male sex fantasy and only a lucky few get to enjoy it.iqqi said:Interesting post, good read.
I say, you only live once!
Although I don't know if I was a guy, if I would do something like this. I'd probably just try to have a threesome or foursome with me being the only guy, and getting all of the attention.
So iqqi, what is your gangbang count up to?iqqi said:Although I don't know if I was a guy, if I would do something like this. I'd probably just try to have a threesome or foursome with me being the only guy, and getting all of the attention.
Maxtro said:Arcadia which is very close to Pasadena.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.