"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So i went out with a crazy girl last night

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This chick is like a princess... has all the money that she could ever want. Just moved to vegas... had maids all her life... blah blah blah. So i meet up with her (she works at holister as a model i guess) and she was cute. But then she said what she did to one of her ex's because he cheated, i said "i dont cheat, but if we ever become anything and you do something like that... i will blow up your house with you in it" she just stared at me... because i said it serious like. But we got along real well, i know she liked me because on my way home she was still texting me. She said "your scary" i said "Im scary lol? your ****ing crazy" she said "thanks" and the more texts to follow. And we might meet up tonight... i dont know what it is about me, but the crazyer they are the more i love it... its so random.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Livinlifehard said:
This chick is like a princess... has all the money that she could ever want. Just moved to vegas... had maids all her life... blah blah blah. So i meet up with her (she works at holister as a model i guess) and she was cute. But then she said what she did to one of her ex's because he cheated, i said "i dont cheat, but if we ever become anything and you do something like that... i will blow up your house with you in it" she just stared at me... because i said it serious like. But we got along real well, i know she liked me because on my way home she was still texting me. She said "your scary" i said "Im scary lol? your ****ing crazy" she said "thanks" and the more texts to follow. And we might meet up tonight... i dont know what it is about me, but the crazyer they are the more i love it... its so random.
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ahh, romance is in the air....
 
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WTF is going on with this site god damnit!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she keyed his truck and ****ed it up, the broke into it (had keys i guess i dont know) and allowed someone to steal his new system.

the other one somehow she stole money from his bank account... i dont know
 
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man, i wish i knew a girl liked me when she txts me saying "YOUR FVCKING SCARY"

i always thought it was the other way around...o well im juss a newbi newb
 
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@Livinlifehard,

Dude just to throw out a wild card,ignore her text for a day,I bet she will give in after 6 hours or so or no response and call you. Just mix it up.
 
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man, i wish i knew a girl liked me when she txts me saying "YOUR FVCKING SCARY"

i always thought it was the other way around...o well im juss a newbi newb
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We kept on texting after that, she was saying she wanted to hang out again and had a good time.
 
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"I'd blow your house up"
I doubt that would be the best response though.
I would have just laughed and then used it a reference joke.
Like "If I don't take you out again you aren't going to key my car right?!"

Mad props on the response,
"YOU’RE ****ING SCARY"
It sounds like it was a test and you must have passed it with flying colors if she said she wants to hang out again. Keep on doing what you are doing!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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woman are attraced to the power....in a way, you put her in her place (by being that scary guy that she can't fvck with)....and she likes you for it.....
 
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