So i went on a date and she was crazy!

[summersky]

Hey people,

i met a girl on social media, we chatted and i called her one time. On the phone she seemed really nice and we had a good conversation. Few days later we had a date.
I was playful, flirty, teased her a lot but also had deep conversations with her. She didnt feel well about my teasing and was reacting in a suprised way. Sometimes she laughed but it was different. All the other girls i dated liked it.. I touched her hand and her back and it was clear that she also didnt like it a lot.

She was checking her phone really often, was picky about the food, asked me to take pictures of her with her phone. She even wanted to check out new clothes and go to a store while we were walking through town. I made fun out of it and teased her about it. Told her like she is behanving like a small litte girl. But later i was really pissed off about her behavior and told her in a calm way that i dont like it. Thats it.

So im asking myself, did i do something wrong? Or maybe she wasnt interested at all and just wanted to ignore me. I would treat people with respect, even if im not interested.. Maybe she is just a selfish and rude person? She told me all her ex boyfriends were really nice guys and treated her like a princess, did everything for her..

What do you think?

Regards

 

[piranha45]

It's obvious from the details you've mentioned that she had 0 interest in you by the time of the date. She may have had interest in you before that, but you killed it off by blabbering too much.

So she just wanted to use you as a meal ticket.

The next time a woman is absorbed in her phone and seems to take your presence for granted, walk away delete her number and never look back.

You have a complete lack of game; you don't understand how to behave towards women in the dominant masculine fashion that compels them submit.

If you want to improve,, you need to set aside time to internalize the articles here: http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/

If you don't want to improve, you're going to continue wasting your time money and effort on women as you did in this situation.

Here is a parting nugget directly applicable to you:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2268396&postcount=2

 

[summersky]

Thanks!
Please, more opinions?

 

[RacerEx]

I'm curious as to why her behavior in person was dramatically different than what you gathered by text/call. Was there something(s) you should have picked up on?

 

[summersky]

I don't really know. On the phone She was more down to Earth and polite. During the date she told me all her ex boyfriends were nice guys that did everything for her.. She was dominant and difficult and it was difficult to take the lead. Im asking myself if its just because she wasnt interested at all? Do Women got two different personalities they use? Or was She just a mess..

 

[GS750]

Best not to overanalyze. Maybe you two just didn't click.

 

[MOTU]

^^^this. She wasn't interested. Who,cares why. Next!

 

[nemz]

Go for a couple of drinks in the evening, within 30-60 minutes you'll know whether you both feel it, cost £12 or $20

Never ever do a daytime lunch date or a meal as a first date, unless you've already got naked with her in the past.