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Don Juan
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So, I was watching an older boxing match, between Roy Jones Jr and Vinny Pazienza. Then something became a little more clear to me.
Do you think Roy Jones Jr or Vinny Pazienza give a **** about learning tools, tricks, and tips... trying to learn "the game" with women? Do you think Slash or Keith Richards gave a **** about trying to figure out why women do ****? Do you think any successful man ever gave a flying **** what women wanted? Nope.
and, still, they have their pick of women. The most beautiful women, they all fight for the chance to be with these guys.
So, what are we really doing here? We are trying to improve ourselves and understand women and ourselves, to improve our flaws and mistakes, to play "the game" and get laid/find a wife/girlfriends. Perhaps we are wasting our time.
They are all ways of masking a problem you think you have. You know what I think the most attractive thing to a woman is? An accomplished man. That **** trumps everything. A woman sees that in a man, and she already can put 2+2 together. You can provide a very good nest for her babies. You have a lot of confidence. The **** goes on.
Perhaps, what we SHOULD be doing, is 100% working on ourselves, to become successful, to become badasses, to not give a flying **** what any woman wants or thinks. You don't have to be a world famous boxer, but you could be a boxer following his dreams. You don't have to be a billionaire, but you could run your own businesses. As long as you have your confidence and you are working on YOURSELF to become the biggest badass, the most successful you can be, then the girls will fall in line and you won't need to play "the game". There would be no "one-itis" because you are #1 in your life and she's just 1 of many. There would be no "she flaked on me what do i do" because the ***** wants you bad, or at least, you wouldn't give a **** if she did.
The confidence and "alpha mindset" (I hate that term) would come naturally because you sincerely don't give a **** about what she wants or thinks. You are #1 and what you want is #1. You follow your own goals, your own dreams, and you are succeeding at it. That right there is the winning formula.
I think we are spending too much energy on what these *****es want, say, or think. I think all 100% of our energy should be spent on making our dreams come true, on becoming the best badass you can be, at becoming the most successful you can be. The confidence and the alpha mindset comes automatically with that, and you won't need to play the game, because *****es respect men like that. A woman sees your world is about -you- and working to improve -you- 24 hours a day, where you don't give a **** what she thinks, where she's lucky she's along for the ride, and you will see how much power you suddenly have with a woman. Remember, we are men. We win in the long term. Women age. Their youthful beauty starts to fade pretty damn fast, while men can continue to be sexy way into their 50's.
I think I have been spending too much time giving a **** about what women say, think, or do.
Do you think Roy Jones Jr or Vinny Pazienza give a **** about learning tools, tricks, and tips... trying to learn "the game" with women? Do you think Slash or Keith Richards gave a **** about trying to figure out why women do ****? Do you think any successful man ever gave a flying **** what women wanted? Nope.
and, still, they have their pick of women. The most beautiful women, they all fight for the chance to be with these guys.
So, what are we really doing here? We are trying to improve ourselves and understand women and ourselves, to improve our flaws and mistakes, to play "the game" and get laid/find a wife/girlfriends. Perhaps we are wasting our time.
They are all ways of masking a problem you think you have. You know what I think the most attractive thing to a woman is? An accomplished man. That **** trumps everything. A woman sees that in a man, and she already can put 2+2 together. You can provide a very good nest for her babies. You have a lot of confidence. The **** goes on.
Perhaps, what we SHOULD be doing, is 100% working on ourselves, to become successful, to become badasses, to not give a flying **** what any woman wants or thinks. You don't have to be a world famous boxer, but you could be a boxer following his dreams. You don't have to be a billionaire, but you could run your own businesses. As long as you have your confidence and you are working on YOURSELF to become the biggest badass, the most successful you can be, then the girls will fall in line and you won't need to play "the game". There would be no "one-itis" because you are #1 in your life and she's just 1 of many. There would be no "she flaked on me what do i do" because the ***** wants you bad, or at least, you wouldn't give a **** if she did.
The confidence and "alpha mindset" (I hate that term) would come naturally because you sincerely don't give a **** about what she wants or thinks. You are #1 and what you want is #1. You follow your own goals, your own dreams, and you are succeeding at it. That right there is the winning formula.
I think we are spending too much energy on what these *****es want, say, or think. I think all 100% of our energy should be spent on making our dreams come true, on becoming the best badass you can be, at becoming the most successful you can be. The confidence and the alpha mindset comes automatically with that, and you won't need to play the game, because *****es respect men like that. A woman sees your world is about -you- and working to improve -you- 24 hours a day, where you don't give a **** what she thinks, where she's lucky she's along for the ride, and you will see how much power you suddenly have with a woman. Remember, we are men. We win in the long term. Women age. Their youthful beauty starts to fade pretty damn fast, while men can continue to be sexy way into their 50's.
I think I have been spending too much time giving a **** about what women say, think, or do.
