"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I want to gain weight the right away.

the_govner

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I used to be a national athlete, tennis player, and was never really gym fit and was always stick thin.

I injured my back last year (damaged disc - nothing major, but I still have to be careful), so I decided to get in shape at the gym instead.

I hired an elite trainer, who has worked with me for one year. I look much more muscular, but haven't exactly gained weight. I'm 5'10 140lbs, and I really look like I've worked out hardcore. That's what the women said in my last beach trip.haha

Anyway, I now work full time and I don't have room to make a schedule to workout with a trainer or go to a gym. So I was thinking of bodyweight training at home. Is it possible to do this and gain weight/muscle at the same time???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EFFORT

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The answer is probably no .....unless you have the necessary equipment at home, join a gym like everyone else does.
 

blinkwatt101

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Espi said:
Yes--it's possible. You have to use weights though. The equipment would be a sizeable investment...buy the equipment secondhand.
Sound advice! Quality gym equipment like dumbbells,bars and weights can last decades. I'd be more prone to replacing anything with a cable or tension type system every 10-15 years though.
 

CarlitosWay

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Espi said:
Yes--it's possible. You have to use weights though. The equipment would be a sizeable investment...buy the equipment secondhand.
Yeah you would have to invest in a good adjustable bench. Adjustable plat loaded dumbbells, good barbell.

Than on top of it get a power rack so you can do squat movements like front squats, seated shoulder press and say incline barbell bench press with safety pins in place.

Possible, yes. Will it cost a good chunk of change ? possibly. Checkout Craigslist.com for people selling stuff I mentioned, you can sometimes find awesome deals as a lot of people are in desperate need of money.

You would save a good amount of money though in the long run, but the cons would be variety of exercises will be some what limited. As I like to do both barbell work and machines/cable stuff. Yet if you have enough room you can just add stuff as the years progress and you get bigger.

All in all I know people who have done it and got great results so ....but as far as body weight work . It's not optimal and your gains will stagnate eventually as far and strength/size goes. You can only do so much with your body weight.

I would just find a good gym like powerhouse/bodybuilder friendly place and just talk shop with all the people who lift and learn learn learn.
 

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If you asked your "elite" trainer to help you put on weight, and a year later you weigh 140lb, sue the bastard! that or you are doing somthign really wrong.

If you want to get bigger, just eat more, A LOT more.

That and do squats, deads, Presses, pull ups.

Cure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Since you didn't mention anything about diet, I assume that it's rubbish.

Muscles don't come from thin air. You don't get big in the gym, you do so in the kitchen. You gotta eat heaps to get big.
 
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