I know this has probably been talked about before and everything but here is my experience that helped me out alot. I used to masturbate everyday, sometimes three times a day. Until age 35. I mean alot. Then I tried something after a horrible experience. I met this girl a few weeks ago, I had jerked it two times earlier that day, I couldn't even perform with her that night (had no idea I was going to hook up with her). I said to myself, what the hell is wrong with me. So I read a couple of things and talked to a couple people. They told me to stop masturbating and try it. I am going to tell you something that is honest to god truth. I feel better, more aggressive, I worked out more, ran more, talked to more girls and was more ****y. And something else that I cannot explain. Women looked at me more and more with a keen eye. I cannot explain this, but I think you give off some sort of energy or scent or something. I have no idea what it is. I didn't change my clothes, my financial situation still sucks, and I still look like a good looking but not "hot" guy. I cannot explain this at all. But women paid more attention to me. I go around them and they just can tell. It's some ****t out of a sci fi flick. I don't understand this. The reason why I quit is because I couldn't please her that night and that hit my ego (I was tapped out), though humiliating, it was like an eye opener. Even the women I wasn't talking to were looking at me different. Smiling, and even with those "fuvk me eyes" we talk about. I know some of you are saying I may be full of ****t and that I am new here, but try it. I think something happens between a man and a woman if the man has more energy. I don't know but I feel great man. Now, I can have sex with any woman because I am always horny. Does anyone else notice this? This is like a weird awakening for me. It is very difficult but it really does make you feel like something else. Sorry for the long post.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So I tried something different after being humiliated a couple weeks ago
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