"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I tried something different after being humiliated a couple weeks ago

trent81

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I know this has probably been talked about before and everything but here is my experience that helped me out alot. I used to masturbate everyday, sometimes three times a day. Until age 35. I mean alot. Then I tried something after a horrible experience. I met this girl a few weeks ago, I had jerked it two times earlier that day, I couldn't even perform with her that night (had no idea I was going to hook up with her). I said to myself, what the hell is wrong with me. So I read a couple of things and talked to a couple people. They told me to stop masturbating and try it. I am going to tell you something that is honest to god truth. I feel better, more aggressive, I worked out more, ran more, talked to more girls and was more ****y. And something else that I cannot explain. Women looked at me more and more with a keen eye. I cannot explain this, but I think you give off some sort of energy or scent or something. I have no idea what it is. I didn't change my clothes, my financial situation still sucks, and I still look like a good looking but not "hot" guy. I cannot explain this at all. But women paid more attention to me. I go around them and they just can tell. It's some ****t out of a sci fi flick. I don't understand this. The reason why I quit is because I couldn't please her that night and that hit my ego (I was tapped out), though humiliating, it was like an eye opener. Even the women I wasn't talking to were looking at me different. Smiling, and even with those "fuvk me eyes" we talk about. I know some of you are saying I may be full of ****t and that I am new here, but try it. I think something happens between a man and a woman if the man has more energy. I don't know but I feel great man. Now, I can have sex with any woman because I am always horny. Does anyone else notice this? This is like a weird awakening for me. It is very difficult but it really does make you feel like something else. Sorry for the long post.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trent, if your not doing it for yourself anymore, more likely than not the energy boost and state of horniness has altered your behaviour without you knowing it. It may not be a big difference, but enough to help you with your game. Good for you.
 

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Thanks, I just can't explain it, it's not even horniness I guess, it's just aggressiveness mixed with renewed interest in wanting the real thing all the time now, I don't know, I may just be going crazy, but something has happened.
 
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