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GeezerBub

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Hello folks. So, I gave Adult Friend Finder a chance. What HOT GARBAGE that was. The free sites we're better. A horrid waste of money. I could have wiped my ass with that cash and it would have been a gain in comparison. o_O

Pretty much every profile was either a catfisher or a scam site recruiter! Maybe a handful of gold diggers, and some cam show girls. :rolleyes:

I wonder, does anyone here have a different experience?
 

GioWolf

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There is zero reason for any woman to use a site like that. They can get no strings sex from both real life and regular dating sites. Plus there is plausible deniability if they are seen on just on a regular dating site. Sites like AFF have been a scam from day one. Preying on horny dudes. If there is a legit woman on one of these sites, she has an SMV of 1 or 2.
 

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Had some hook-ups back in 2006 that I cancelled out of before meeting the women. Overall it was a fun-experience which ended with a cliffhanger. Started on November 1, 2006, and ended it on November 30, 2006, and had an arrangement set-up to meet someone on November 29, 2006. Made this blog crying virgin to see if I got any bites. I'm not longer going on the internet to look for hook-ups since 2006.
 

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There is zero reason for any woman to use a site like that. They can get no strings sex from both real life and regular dating sites. Plus there is plausible deniability if they are seen on just on a regular dating site. Sites like AFF have been a scam from day one. Preying on horny dudes. If there is a legit woman on one of these sites, she has an SMV of 1 or 2.
Many woman profiles that I saw on AFF also had duplicate pictures on other profiles on legit dating sites. Nobody is stopping anyone for subscribing to multiple sites as it's not an either/or thing, especially for women who don't usually have to pay.
 

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Adult Friend Finder is nothing more than a scam to take money from desperate and thirsty dudes out there.

Most are bots and not real females.
 

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Sounds like Zoosk. That app actively scams you.
 

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To be fair, personally I got a good but unusual result from AFF about 10yrs ago. I say unusual result because I had only been on the site a week when I was approached by this couple in my city. The wife informed me that her husband enjoyed watching her getting ploughed, and they could both come to my place if i was game. I had never been in this unique situation before, so I thought about it for a minute and decided to go for it, since I was single and free.

They came to my place 2 days after the initial contact (on a Saturday afternoon). The initial 5mins was still a bit awkward for me, but the hubby put me at ease and encouraged me to sit on the couch next to his wife. She and I started to make out while he pretended to watch tv. She then suggested that we take it to the bedroom and all 3 of us went up. The husband sat on the stool by the dressing table while the wife and i undressed each other and got to work. He just sat there silently and watched. I kept expecting him to jump up in rage and stab or punch me, but he never did. After our session, the guy and his wife stayed for some minutes of small talk and left.

They came again for about 3 sessions before the husband suggested that his wife could come on her own from then onwards, as he was satisfied that she would be safe with me. He would be happy to receive session reports when she got home.
I saw her 2 times by herself before I changed my phone number since I had entered a LTR. I then terminated my AFF account soon after.

So AFF to me delivered the goods.
 

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The only matchmaking service I think really works is fetlife. Not that I've used it, but it's been around a long time. And it's not for prudes.
 

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The only matchmaking service I think really works is fetlife. Not that I've used it, but it's been around a long time. And it's not for prudes.
I've tried that but for whatever reason, it's been banned from the app store now. This is where I met a sex partner that invited me to an exclusive underground sex club that I never knew existed. It's one of those secret invite only clubs.
Anywho if you're not built or stand out in a certain way, you'll be one of the many fishes in the vast sea of guys.
 

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The only matchmaking service I think really works is fetlife. Not that I've used it, but it's been around a long time. And it's not for prudes.
I’ll skip the B D S M and kink sites for now, but thanks anyways…
 
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RickTheToad

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Hello folks. So, I gave Adult Friend Finder a chance. What HOT GARBAGE that was. The free sites we're better. A horrid waste of money. I could have wiped my ass with that cash and it would have been a gain in comparison. o_O

Pretty much every profile was either a catfisher or a scam site recruiter! Maybe a handful of gold diggers, and some cam show girls. :rolleyes:

I wonder, does anyone here have a different experience?
Didn't even know AFF was still in business. That was like 15 years ago.
 

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I used to talk to a chick, who said her ex found his new girlfriend on there, which shocked me. I thought that site was nothing but bots and scammers whenever I saw ads for it, but I guess there are actually some real people on there
 

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To be fair, personally I got a good but unusual result from AFF about 10yrs ago. I say unusual result because I had only been on the site a week when I was approached by this couple in my city. The wife informed me that her husband enjoyed watching her getting ploughed, and they could both come to my place if i was game. I had never been in this unique situation before, so I thought about it for a minute and decided to go for it, since I was single and free.

They came to my place 2 days after the initial contact (on a Saturday afternoon). The initial 5mins was still a bit awkward for me, but the hubby put me at ease and encouraged me to sit on the couch next to his wife. She and I started to make out while he pretended to watch tv. She then suggested that we take it to the bedroom and all 3 of us went up. The husband sat on the stool by the dressing table while the wife and i undressed each other and got to work. He just sat there silently and watched. I kept expecting him to jump up in rage and stab or punch me, but he never did. After our session, the guy and his wife stayed for some minutes of small talk and left.

They came again for about 3 sessions before the husband suggested that his wife could come on her own from then onwards, as he was satisfied that she would be safe with me. He would be happy to receive session reports when she got home.
I saw her 2 times by herself before I changed my phone number since I had entered a LTR. I then terminated my AFF account soon after.

So AFF to me delivered the goods.
YOUR A GOD-DAMN LEGEND!!!!
 

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Haven't been there since like 2000. Brings back memories... of fake profiles. It was edgy for the time because it was "adult" and embraced the sexual aspect of dating, But it was niche, like for perverts. Respectable people weren't going to those kinds of sites and hooking up from websites - openly.
 

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I've seen adds for it and just assumed it was a scam.

I never believed the premise of the site which was that hot women were sitting around desperate for sex.

Women that just want sex can get it easily without joining wierd sites like that.
 

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Met a lot of swingers on there and even a few single freaky chicks but you've really got to be willing to slog through all the fakes and flakes. Zero chance of finding a normal unattached female though.
 
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