"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I Think I Figured It Out

612_Da_Playa

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...well I think I do. Instead of purchasing a new PS3, I'm going to go get some nice clothes and exert myself more into the social envoirment rather than playing video games.:nono: I mean playing them is fine but it can get addicting and it's time for me to move on. So I'm going to make a more concerted effort to engage in more social settings and gatherings/concerts/parties what not and engage with people. I mean isn't that what picking up women is-- being able to talk to people while maintaining fine self-awareness? I"ll be focusing on school and having fun and be on the website less. Best of wishes:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KnockoutJM

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That is a great idea, what helped me do that also, was when i learned to make a video game, once you know how it works, its not so interesting, and then you realize every single game is the same thing, but a different story/character. Better off just reading an adventure book.
 

Trapper

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keep on growing up kid.. why dont you go to high school form?
 

Dongfu

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What a concept . . . stop playing video games.

I know . . . why dont they make a DJ video game. Every time you blow it with a chick, Don Juan comes out and kicks you in the nuts.

This way, you'll never have to leave home, and you can start a forum, and compare cyber scores and who has the most points.
 
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