Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I Think I Figured It Out

612_Da_Playa

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...well I think I do. Instead of purchasing a new PS3, I'm going to go get some nice clothes and exert myself more into the social envoirment rather than playing video games.:nono: I mean playing them is fine but it can get addicting and it's time for me to move on. So I'm going to make a more concerted effort to engage in more social settings and gatherings/concerts/parties what not and engage with people. I mean isn't that what picking up women is-- being able to talk to people while maintaining fine self-awareness? I"ll be focusing on school and having fun and be on the website less. Best of wishes:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KnockoutJM

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That is a great idea, what helped me do that also, was when i learned to make a video game, once you know how it works, its not so interesting, and then you realize every single game is the same thing, but a different story/character. Better off just reading an adventure book.
 

Trapper

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keep on growing up kid.. why dont you go to high school form?
 

Dongfu

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What a concept . . . stop playing video games.

I know . . . why dont they make a DJ video game. Every time you blow it with a chick, Don Juan comes out and kicks you in the nuts.

This way, you'll never have to leave home, and you can start a forum, and compare cyber scores and who has the most points.
 
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