"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I Stopped Talking to Her

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Anyways, this girl that i had been talking about in my previous thread, i stopped talking to her. We've been friends for years and i just stopped talking with her, its as we are strangers with each other now. Cuz i dont care anymore, i give her up. im just a lil curious about this matter..

After i stopped talking to her, she keeps mentioning how she's sad and depressed and how she hates everything that is going on in life, and how she wishes that everything will just go away. Then on her online quiz thing she answered she answered "kinda" for do you like anyone. Knownig her for years and reading all those stupid online quizzees, she always answers no.

Not being too into this and all, it's just that curiosity kills the cat =]
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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uh analyzing her answers to online quizes? Dude I'll make it simple for you. If you like her, ask her out. If you don't, who the hell cares.
 
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I wish my life was as meaningless as yours so that I could wonder about such retarded issues.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
I wish my life was as meaningless as yours so that I could wonder about such retarded issues.
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BAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

Sorry, that was funny :)

Anyways, if you don't care, why are you analyzing these things?
 
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Wow...

Take things for what they are... Call her up to talk and say hi, If she asks why your calling just say" Well i heard your not doing very well and i thought you needed someone to talk to.. If she comes off *****y by it just let her know your trieng to help Women love men who "Care" This is a big importance. and Obviously you care if your asking us and analizing quizes. I say talk to her find out if this is a wase of time or not. If it is, leave it on a friendship level and make another woman happy as she would be..

Originally posted by LikRetsam
I wish my life was as meaningless as yours so that I could wonder about such retarded issues.
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So If you have the balls to call her and show her how much of a man you can be you wont have these retarded issues, men dont pray to get lucky or hypothosise the way things could be, They press the issues of what they want, shoot for them and women shoot to get them...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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