"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I now have a FB. Any tips?

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Dan08

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I now kinda have a fb thing going on with a girl I know, we both don't want relationships and literally want to fck around. Anyways, I know she's interested so banging is not far away, is there any tips you guys here on SoSuave want to send my way about these kinda things before I go for this?

I reckon a little bit of performance anxiety is creeping up on me as yano I know this girl, she's reasonable friends with a housemate of mine and I don't wanna fck up and have everyone know about.

Help me out guys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Treat her like a girl that you are "Dating" before being exclusive. That's essentially what a FB is anyway. Call/text ask her to hang out at your place. Then escalate and sex. And don't be clingy.
 
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Don't treat her like a girlfriend unless you want unnecessary drama in your life
 
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Okay bringing this back up as things have stalled somewhat mainly my fault as I'm sh!t busy with work right now. Need to know how to kickstart things, nothing's really gone on since the first post on this thread.

Part of me just wants to next it and forget it and then somewhere down the line if we're both drunk again see what happens but in the meantime just focus on my sh!t right now.

So peeps. Clinch it for me, either simply tell me to kickstart it again and how or simply say next...
 
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Whenever you're horny hit her up for some drinks at your place. Escalate, bang, repeat the next time you're horny.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The best piece of advice I received to a similar question as a much younger man was: "if you see her more than twice a week, she's your girlfriend".
I'd keep it once a week if possible.
 
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F*ck other woman and don't focus too much attention on any ONE woman (like you're doing right now).

What girls say about your performance, pen!s size, etc. is irrelevant unless YOU care about it (which you shouldn't). A FB is for YOUR pleasure.. not the other way around.. so why the f*ck would you have performance anxiety? She is a toy. You have nothing to prove to her.

A FB is like an auto-mechanic --> You only deal with her when you need fixin'. Then you forget she exists until you need fixin' again. :up:
 
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