"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I now have a FB. Any tips?

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I now kinda have a fb thing going on with a girl I know, we both don't want relationships and literally want to fck around. Anyways, I know she's interested so banging is not far away, is there any tips you guys here on SoSuave want to send my way about these kinda things before I go for this?

I reckon a little bit of performance anxiety is creeping up on me as yano I know this girl, she's reasonable friends with a housemate of mine and I don't wanna fck up and have everyone know about.

Help me out guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Treat her like a girl that you are "Dating" before being exclusive. That's essentially what a FB is anyway. Call/text ask her to hang out at your place. Then escalate and sex. And don't be clingy.
 
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Don't treat her like a girlfriend unless you want unnecessary drama in your life
 
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Okay bringing this back up as things have stalled somewhat mainly my fault as I'm sh!t busy with work right now. Need to know how to kickstart things, nothing's really gone on since the first post on this thread.

Part of me just wants to next it and forget it and then somewhere down the line if we're both drunk again see what happens but in the meantime just focus on my sh!t right now.

So peeps. Clinch it for me, either simply tell me to kickstart it again and how or simply say next...
 
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Whenever you're horny hit her up for some drinks at your place. Escalate, bang, repeat the next time you're horny.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The best piece of advice I received to a similar question as a much younger man was: "if you see her more than twice a week, she's your girlfriend".
I'd keep it once a week if possible.
 
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F*ck other woman and don't focus too much attention on any ONE woman (like you're doing right now).

What girls say about your performance, pen!s size, etc. is irrelevant unless YOU care about it (which you shouldn't). A FB is for YOUR pleasure.. not the other way around.. so why the f*ck would you have performance anxiety? She is a toy. You have nothing to prove to her.

A FB is like an auto-mechanic --> You only deal with her when you need fixin'. Then you forget she exists until you need fixin' again. :up:
 
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