"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I now have a FB. Any tips?

Dan08

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I now kinda have a fb thing going on with a girl I know, we both don't want relationships and literally want to fck around. Anyways, I know she's interested so banging is not far away, is there any tips you guys here on SoSuave want to send my way about these kinda things before I go for this?

I reckon a little bit of performance anxiety is creeping up on me as yano I know this girl, she's reasonable friends with a housemate of mine and I don't wanna fck up and have everyone know about.

Help me out guys?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Treat her like a girl that you are "Dating" before being exclusive. That's essentially what a FB is anyway. Call/text ask her to hang out at your place. Then escalate and sex. And don't be clingy.
 

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Don't treat her like a girlfriend unless you want unnecessary drama in your life
 

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Okay bringing this back up as things have stalled somewhat mainly my fault as I'm sh!t busy with work right now. Need to know how to kickstart things, nothing's really gone on since the first post on this thread.

Part of me just wants to next it and forget it and then somewhere down the line if we're both drunk again see what happens but in the meantime just focus on my sh!t right now.

So peeps. Clinch it for me, either simply tell me to kickstart it again and how or simply say next...
 

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Whenever you're horny hit her up for some drinks at your place. Escalate, bang, repeat the next time you're horny.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The best piece of advice I received to a similar question as a much younger man was: "if you see her more than twice a week, she's your girlfriend".
I'd keep it once a week if possible.
 

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F*ck other woman and don't focus too much attention on any ONE woman (like you're doing right now).

What girls say about your performance, pen!s size, etc. is irrelevant unless YOU care about it (which you shouldn't). A FB is for YOUR pleasure.. not the other way around.. so why the f*ck would you have performance anxiety? She is a toy. You have nothing to prove to her.

A FB is like an auto-mechanic --> You only deal with her when you need fixin'. Then you forget she exists until you need fixin' again. :up:
 
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