Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I met another psycho and need your opinions....

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Okay,

I saw this post on craigslist about this chick *****in and moaning about some dude she didn't like. I emailed and sent a pic she sent a pic and she showed interest. She wrote her number and asked me to call her, when I called, she started being rude and condecending. I was like, "what fuvk is your problem?" afterall, she did ask me to call her. So towards the end of the conversation I said, "Look, I don't know what your problem is but you told me to call you and I would like to meet you for a drink when you calm the fuvk down and be nicer". She agreed. Then, she flaked on me that day. Here comes the psychotic event....
When she flaked, I said, whatever, maybe some other time. I deleted her number. Mind you, I never met her. She then told me that she would get back to me Sunday (tomorrow). I said whatever and deleted her number. On Friday morning (yesterday) I get a text from her as if we have known each other for two weeks. The texts were pointless (about her work day). After a few texts I said (look, I gotta go but have a good rest of the afternoon at work. talk to you soon). I never heard anything back after that text. I never asked her out again. What the hell was that text about? Am I going crazy here? Why was she rude to me when I called? What the hell is wrong with this girl. She is hot but I think she is crazy. What's the next move? Contact her one more time? Or let her "get back to me" as she said. Have no idea why I received texts yesterday. She was talking like we have known each other for weeks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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trent,

trent says

I saw this post on craigslist about this chick *****in and moaning about some dude she didn't like.
The girl was crazy when you met her, there's ALOT of crazy people on craigslist and hookers too! Myspace is a good spot to meet chicks online but craigslist is full of psychos.
 

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trent81 said:
Why was she rude to me when I called? What the hell is wrong with this girl. She is hot but I think she is crazy. What's the next move? Contact her one more time? Or let her "get back to me" as she said. Have no idea why I received texts yesterday. She was talking like we have known each other for weeks.
Is she crazy?

Why was she rude to you ?

Imagine this - you are a good looking guy who is usually pursued by women...no problem.

Then you decide, after a recent breakup, to post a rant on Craigslist about how your ex G/f did you wrong. You really go off on her, and women in general.
Then you receive an email for some random woman who wants to talk to you after she read your explosion.

What would you think of a woman who contacts you "for a drink.." after you have hated on females in general?

How are you likely to treat her given your emotional condition??
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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