"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I just got this text.. how would you handle this?

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Brighty

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So I just got a text from this one girl out of the blue that kind of blindsided me.

Her: "So I'm about to say something completely and entirely crazy.. Are you ready?"
Brighty: "as ready as ill ever be"
Her: "So i was at the bf's house right and were messing around (sorry about that detail) but anyway I couldnt help thinking about you which was so inappropriate but I thought youd be glad to hear that. And he kept asking me what was wrong bc i seemed out of it haha."
Brighty: "well, good to know i leave a lasting impression"



The conversation continues on a bit, but even though I earned some man points I feel kind of bad for the bf. I don't want to be the sleaze who's so addicted to pvssy that he'll do whatever he can to get some ass, but then again this is like another attestament me seeing success because of this website and its free pvssy. How do you guys usually handle situations like this? I don't want to be the dude who causes them to break up, or the dude who's fvcking some girl behind her bf's back... maybe that's just the nativity from me being young talking there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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King Turi

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Sounds like she's got a bit of a crush on you.

I think you pretty much handled it how I would have.. but I ain't no pro or nothin'..
 
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Desert Fox

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Dude you shoulda said,

"How about you come over so you don't gotta pretend with your boyfriend."

Of course, you may have to battle with you inner demons if you choose between that and what you said.
 
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hansol

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Just play it cool:

"Oh princess, you have SUCH hard luck, all the boys chasing you and everything. Play nice..." Or push it furthur and ask why she was wasting her time with him when she could have come over and had tofu and played jenga.

She wants you to show your hand, and mention how you were thinking about her too, blah blah blah. .

You gotta make the decision if you are cool with being a homewrecker or not, based strictly on principles. Personally, if the girl is happy with her boyfriend when I game her, then I don't push it. If she comes on strong though, and I find out after the fact there is a boyfriend, then it's game on. I don't like wrecking "nice" relationships.
 
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Brighty said:
So I just got a text from this one girl out of the blue that kind of blindsided me.

Her: "So I'm about to say something completely and entirely crazy.. Are you ready?"
Brighty: "as ready as ill ever be"
Her: "So i was at the bf's house right and were messing around (sorry about that detail) but anyway I couldnt help thinking about you which was so inappropriate but I thought youd be glad to hear that. And he kept asking me what was wrong bc i seemed out of it haha."
Brighty: "well, good to know i leave a lasting impression"
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Holy cow dude, that's the best text responses I've ever heard.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well, its basicly up to you. I mean I kind of feel the same way. I wouldnt wanna hurt anybodys relationship and I would feel bad for the guy if I was fvcking his girlfriend.

On the other hand I can feel the complete opposite and not care. I've been cheated on and cheated on my girlfriends. Sometimes I feel bad other times I dont.

If you feel fine trying to fvck this girl... do it. If you dont than just move on.
 
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DonGorgon

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She is a ho marveling at her power over men... what should you do? what ever you have been doing so you can keep Fing her...lol our only purpose on earth is to mate as often as we can before we die,. FACT
 
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75%PUA

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Guy shes a HO, id tell the guy if i were u. Why? put urself in his shoes, hes gettin played like a *****...im sure she aint worth the shag
 
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