"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I had my first facial the other day...

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The title also reminded me the porn stuff :)

I don't know what makes you think that getting a facial is girl stuff or would make you 'gay'. It is completely normal, everyone has acne problems. I got a facial when I went to the doctor for acne problems. Nevertheless, beauty salons do the same thing and it may be metrosexual, but who cares...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uhhh... poping a pimple is a NO no... any idiot with a brain larger in a pea should know better. You better hope you dont get scar from that, you might not see it now but when you get older; you skin will look F*up due to lower collegen or whatever it spelled.
 

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wuts next? the bikini line? are u also gunna wax ur legs?
haha kiddin, gj if it did wonders for u :eek:
 

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Originally posted by Tai
Uhhh... poping a pimple is a NO no... any idiot with a brain larger in a pea should know better. You better hope you dont get scar from that, you might not see it now but when you get older; you skin will look F*up due to lower collegen or whatever it spelled.
you know what happens when you assume, right?

you make an ass of u and me

you obviously know very little on the subject, yet you yell out ignorant remarks.

please consider that before posting again.
 

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depends on how it's poped... If you poke a hole on it at the yellowish with a burned needle (to remove bacteria) it's all good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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