"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So i got this chicks number

pingpongz

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Ill give you a bit of background...
Im in college, 2nd year this girl is a first year...

She came up to me and my buddies in a student bar introduced herself and asked me to dance... we kissed a bit on the dance floor then we both got separated some how and i didn't see her for the rest of the night...

about 2 weeks later i bump into her again at the same bar when i was atrociously drunk started making small talk and eventually started kissing again...

Roll on semester 2... met her the first week back in a club in the smoking area i was sober this time so the game was on made small talk etc etc and got her to put her number in my phone... no kissing she had her arm around me though in a flirty way big deal.

My question is simple. Shes in my experience a **** tease that tries to get with as many guys as possible in a night... ive seen it first hand on other occasions... its been about 5 days since i got her number should i just delete is or give her a text ? if so what should i say ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonGorgon

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numbers dont mean much any more.... it means that you are on to the second round of auditions along with 300 other dudes. Try to make as much progress as you can while face to face with her cause women love to BS on the phone.
 
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