"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So i got this chicks number

pingpongz

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Ill give you a bit of background...
Im in college, 2nd year this girl is a first year...

She came up to me and my buddies in a student bar introduced herself and asked me to dance... we kissed a bit on the dance floor then we both got separated some how and i didn't see her for the rest of the night...

about 2 weeks later i bump into her again at the same bar when i was atrociously drunk started making small talk and eventually started kissing again...

Roll on semester 2... met her the first week back in a club in the smoking area i was sober this time so the game was on made small talk etc etc and got her to put her number in my phone... no kissing she had her arm around me though in a flirty way big deal.

My question is simple. Shes in my experience a **** tease that tries to get with as many guys as possible in a night... ive seen it first hand on other occasions... its been about 5 days since i got her number should i just delete is or give her a text ? if so what should i say ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonGorgon

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numbers dont mean much any more.... it means that you are on to the second round of auditions along with 300 other dudes. Try to make as much progress as you can while face to face with her cause women love to BS on the phone.
 
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