So I got some girl's phone number on a flight last night. She lives bout 45 mins from me seemed lil promising But

[Firecrotch66]

But even though I'm off my meds now doesn't mean I'm mentally stable. I'm still very mentally unstable. My plan with this girl is have her hit me up and focus on myself and girls who aren't a 45 min drive away is that a good plan?

 

[Plinco]

What's the goal here exactly? You got the girl's number, which I'm under the impression that this is sexual in nature and both of you have some mutual attraction. If 45 minutes away from you is too far, then that's too far.

 

[EyeBRollin]

No. Not a good plan. You are talking yourself out of getting laid. Why are you doing that?

 

[Glassguy]

To me, a 45 minute drive is nothing. But to each their own. I would be more concerned about your mental instability rather than how long it takes to drive to a chick's house.

 

[Firecrotch66]

No. Not a good plan. You are talking yourself out of getting laid. Why are you doing that?

The same reason I talk myself out of doing bad business deals with my friends. Just cause the sex will be great for one night doesn't mean I'm walking away without a treasure chest full of surprises. Either it's sex for one night or 18 years of alimony checks. Or even worse a marriage with a boring ass woman who doesn't know what she wants from life. The question was do I bang the ncar mesa researcher getting her phd in atmospheric research who spends hours working for a phd without an end goal. Or do I take a raincheck and wait and until I find a girl who knows what her end goals are. You know if I knew she had an end goal for degree when I spoke with her the 45 min drive wouldn't have seem so daunting. Yet because this was a woman who was simply existing and less living my anxiety started to question whether trying to pursue this woman was even worth the risk. Now looking back I'm happy she ghosted because she made it easy for me. I probably would've ghosted if she didn't ghost for me. I like women who put in effort to a difficult job when they know what their end goals are. I know this sounds like excuses, however, I'm always thinking the consequences of actions I take and I don't want to be stuck in a bad situation. I've been in bad situations before. I'm trying to make a change.

 

[Firecrotch66]

To me, a 45 minute drive is nothing. But to each their own. I would be more concerned about your mental instability rather than how long it takes to drive to a chick's house.

My mental instability tends to fluctuate. Thankfully I'm stupid enough where I burn the bridge myself and eat myself alive instead of bringing anyone with me. You know its funny because most mentally unstable guys will hurt a girl. The most I'll do is have a conversation with myself in the form of a text message and shes the observer and then at the end of the text thread I'll admit that texting her was stupid as hell and apologize. You know I get text messages from these girls years later. I don't remember any of them or the conversation. I don't remember sleeping with them either. We could have the most passionate relationship and I vaguely remember it. All I can tell them is ,"hey I'm sorry you remember me yet I don't remember you." You know the reason I don't remember these people is because those who choose not to maintain contact with me the text thread and their phone number goes into the garbage within a month. I'm not going to keep someones contact if there is no gurantee of it becoming something beyond a text conversation. I just don't see the point. If she's not interested now, why would she be interested later?

Even if she's interested later. I'm not interested. She didn't like me when I was f**cking crazy. Why would I be interested in a girl who likes me when I'm stable? That's called a summer friend. When the weather gets bad they're not there to ride it out with you. When the weather is nice they're there with you. I'm not the type to be cool with someone who's only there when I'm stable. No no she needs to be there when I'm fu**cking crazy and stable. If she's not fighting for the relationship she ain't the one. Sorry I went off on a tangent. I'm hungry. Haven't eaten dinner yet. I'm go do that. Well if you're as lazy as I am 45 min drive is kinda far unless she's cooking dinner. Then hell I will be there in 15 mins. Sex is not enough to get me to drive. Food. Food I love food and I hate cooking. I'm a gourmet chef yet I hate doing it so much. She cooks I will marry her. Now if she drives to me hell I'm all for it.

 

[Firecrotch66]

I wana add to my essay. The worst are women who choose to stick around. When I'm not serious about one and I have to ghost her. God I hate that. I actually feel really bad about ghosting a girl but you know I'd rather ghost a really annoying girl over deal with her and when a girl does the dirty work for me thank God. I love people who do the dirty work for me. I would rather keep my hands clean whenever possible. Even relationships man I don't like breaking up with a girl so I'll gaslight the hell out of girl and influence all her friends so she makes the move. The official story becomes I was a great guy and she lost me. I like keeping it that way over the truth of it all lmao.

 

[MatureDJ]

But even though I'm off my meds now doesn't mean I'm mentally stable. I'm still very mentally unstable. My plan with this girl is have her hit me up and focus on myself and girls who aren't a 45 min drive away is that a good plan?

I think you need to work on your own sanity situation before taking on any women.

 

[Willie Naylor]

I think you need to work on your own sanity situation before taking on any women.

Pot. Meet kettle.

 

[Firecrotch66]

I think you need to work on your own sanity situation before taking on any women.

It's not even sanity man. Its confidence. My entire childhood was s**t. Town I'm from family is very successful and association with me gave people status. You know my entire upbringing I had actual confirmation women were using me for clout and my friends just wanted a slice of my fam's wealth. I'm a bloodhound when it comes to identifying suckups and self absorbed women. You know my reactions to it is normal for someone who's never had contact with a healthy person before.

I wish I could have a sense of humor on stuff like this but I don't. It'd be nice to just brush them off. Yet I think women are kinda trash because of my upbringing. I know not all are but it feels like the majority are just trash. Why would you ever have respect for someone who clings onto someones else's success? My family went through hardships to get to where they are today. Where were they when times were bad? Nowhere to be seen. F**ck em. That's one of my motivations behind College. When these wh0res hit me up later and they will cause they always do. I'm do what I always do "I'm sorry you remember me. I don't remember you." Call me crazy now and when I got s**t they want later they ain't getting even crumbs. I'm a eat a porterhouse right in front of them while downing a glass of 5000 dollar wine. They can go f**ck themselves. If a girl is stupid enough to not see the future. Then she's stupid enough to not deserve it.

 

[Firecrotch66]

It's the people like me who have brains, ambition, and drive and who most call crazy who build the future. Normal people they don't build the future. They don't try. They're normal. Their abilities sit in the range of normal. Crazy is where success comes from because we have vision we create reality not live someone else's reality. The rest of you sit the world of what he said what she said. Blah blah blah.