"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I got into it with my wife's friend, help settle this

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So one of my wife's friends, dumped this guy who she really kinda liked, after knowing him for about 2 weeks or so, because he's "a player" .


he admitted, he dated...3... girls, since the beginning of 2017. And one of those 3, died in a car accident.


She claimed she hasn't dated anyone in a year. So when I called her out on her Facebook page of her saying what happens in vagas stays in vagas, with some dude she was laying in bed with lol, she lost it.


I was like who the **** cares what he did before he met you lol. He really really liked her too. Like, I can tell when a guy is feeling a woman and this guy really was feeling her on a deep level about as deep as you can be for 2 weeks. They had a lot in common.


So I said ***** you crazy lol, i had three girlfriends when i met Mllie (my wife) lol, let alone in a year in a half. How you go get mad at a guy who is single but had a life before he met you lol


Some people just don't understand how to date man.


Am I wrong in thinking 3 people in 20 months, is not a lot of people?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So one of my wife's friends, dumped this guy who she really kinda liked, after knowing him for about 2 weeks or so, because he's "a player" .


he admitted, he dated...3... girls, since the beginning of 2017. And one of those 3, died in a car accident.


She claimed she hasn't dated anyone in a year. So when I called her out on her Facebook page of her saying what happens in vagas stays in vagas, with some dude she was laying in bed with lol, she lost it.


I was like who the **** cares what he did before he met you lol. He really really liked her too. Like, I can tell when a guy is feeling a woman and this guy really was feeling her on a deep level about as deep as you can be for 2 weeks. They had a lot in common.


So I said ***** you crazy lol, i had three girlfriends when i met Mllie (my wife) lol, let alone in a year in a half. How you go get mad at a guy who is single but had a life before he met you lol


Some people just don't understand how to date man.


Am I wrong in thinking 3 people in 20 months, is not a lot of people?
3 in 20 is on the light side. On the other hand try to stay out of others lives unless invited in.
 
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