"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I got asked out...

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How do you guys react to getting asked out by a girl you actually value as a friend, but nothing more?

I had this chick that is a really awesome girl, but i'm just not attracted to her in THAT way ask me out yesterday. I just said i couldn't because of some things going on with an ex of mine, to which she responded:
"Dump that ***** and go out with me!"

I just said "We'll see how things go."

I was in a really bad mood for that at the time (not in a bad mood, but just tired and almost asleep) so it hit me really off-balance.

I havn't talked to the girl since, and don't know exactally how she's gonna act, how do you all think i should have/did handle the situation? How should I act around her later?

I was just going to act like it hadn't happened, but if she brings it up again i'm not really sure how to react?

Now i know how chicks who deal with AFC guys feel...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Use as a friends with benefits. Or let her down easy.
 
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No friends with benifits....i'm not into her phsically at all.
 
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evidently she's not that attractive, am i right? what do you rate her? she might get mad about you and your current love interest but dont let that get to your head, she thinks you'll do anything for her, dont do it. she has to realize you guys are just friends, I know from a guys stand point that LJBF line sucks ballz but sometimes it needs to be said.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alittle on the low side and you said "at best" so she could be a 4 or 5 by another dj's standards. is there somthing between you two that doesnt make you want her? like a weird experience or somthing or is she just to much of a friend
 
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well she's a pretty good friend, but she's just nothing like the kind of girls i like to date. I don't find her attractive, and i'm sure i couldn't stand her much after an hour or two of chilling with her.
 
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