"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I dumped a cougar

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COMPTON

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Ya know Im 28 and she was 43. Pretty hot too. I knew her for like 2 days. We went at it for like 4 hours the first night. It was fun.
The next day she came over and we got it on for like an hour. Then it started getting old. And I feel like **** for dumping her but she wasn't what I wanted. I just feel like ****. Any ideas on how to stop feeling this way?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Probably too old to get pregnant, but not too old to pass along some nasty little sexual bugs. Get checked out by a doctor. You have a high risk hobby.
 
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High risk hobby haha! I think we all have the same hobby. I was protected bro.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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COMPTON said:
Ya know Im 28 and she was 43. Pretty hot too. I knew her for like 2 days. We went at it for like 4 hours the first night. It was fun.
The next day she came over and we got it on for like an hour. Then it started getting old. And I feel like **** for dumping her but she wasn't what I wanted. I just feel like ****. Any ideas on how to stop feeling this way?
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You just have to deal with it, it was your choice to get into it without realizing it was what you wanted in the first place. There's a drawback to jumping into poon just because it's there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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