"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I dumped a cougar

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COMPTON

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Ya know Im 28 and she was 43. Pretty hot too. I knew her for like 2 days. We went at it for like 4 hours the first night. It was fun.
The next day she came over and we got it on for like an hour. Then it started getting old. And I feel like **** for dumping her but she wasn't what I wanted. I just feel like ****. Any ideas on how to stop feeling this way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Probably too old to get pregnant, but not too old to pass along some nasty little sexual bugs. Get checked out by a doctor. You have a high risk hobby.
 
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High risk hobby haha! I think we all have the same hobby. I was protected bro.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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COMPTON said:
Ya know Im 28 and she was 43. Pretty hot too. I knew her for like 2 days. We went at it for like 4 hours the first night. It was fun.
The next day she came over and we got it on for like an hour. Then it started getting old. And I feel like **** for dumping her but she wasn't what I wanted. I just feel like ****. Any ideas on how to stop feeling this way?
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You just have to deal with it, it was your choice to get into it without realizing it was what you wanted in the first place. There's a drawback to jumping into poon just because it's there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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