"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I did the craziest thing the other night..

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And approached some girl right in front of her boyfriend. Literally right in front, as they were the only two sitting at a table. I basically went up to them and said hello and asked them how they were doing. Then I said, I know this is random and this is probably your boyfriend and I mean no disrespect by this but you are really cute and I thought I would let you know. She then proceeded to tell me he actually was her boyfriend but it was very nice of me to tell her that. We then briefly talked for a bit and then I exited. I don't know what was in me at the time. It was just an impulse thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gia Giovanni

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I wanted to do the craziest thing yesterday. I am sitting with my book and my drink when this obnoxious guy saunters in with a female and sits next to me. Apparently, he met her on match.com. She had flown from Florida to meet him.

I'll spare the details, but this guy made at least 50 sexual reference in 20 minutes. He wants to know how their potentially long term relationship will play out. The woman is sitting there with her sunglasses on saying very little while he drones on and on. I wanted to jump in the conversation and say man can't you read her. She is not going to slept with you. Now please go away.
 

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You should of. Could of got yourself some Florida girl ass.
 

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Why not talk to a girl without a guy next to her? Seems more logical to me.
 

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Not really a big deal. I talk to random people all the time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Why not talk to a girl without a guy next to her? Seems more logical to me.
I already have a girlfriend. I had no intention of getting her number, hooking up etc..

It's just that I've been in a relationship so long I forgot what approaching was like. It was refreshing. This seemed the safest thing to do. Don't want to give some poor single girls some false hope.
 
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