So I called her... go no where

[slitherjef]

I must be doing something wrong. I can get the number but no further then the call, which lasted 20 seconds...

Me: (her name)?
Her: Yeah?
Me: Hey, its slitherjef, whats going on?
Her: Hey... (sounding suprised)
Me: You sound suprised
Her: Yeah, took me a moment to realize who you where
Me: Ah, I see, so hows it going?
Her: Hey.... can I call you back, I got to console my roomate
Me: Yeah, sure. Thats cool. Bye
Her: Bye

Yeah so... I don't know.

 

[Bvbidd]

I told ya she would flake. lol I was right.

 

[slitherjef]

I told ya she would flake. lol I was right.

Im glad my failures are making you feel good

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I must be doing something wrong. I can get the number but no further then the call, which lasted 20 seconds...

Let's bring in an interpreter...

Me: (her name)?
Interpretation: I hope this isn't a wrong number...
Her: Yeah?
Interpretation: Who the f#$%?
Me: Hey, its slitherjef, whats going on?
Interpretation: HOT DAMN!!! IT'S REALLY HER NUMBER!!!
Her: Hey... (sounding suprised)
Interpretation: Damn, I forgot I gave out my number....
Me: You sound suprised
Interpretation: Didn't think I'd call, did 'ya?
Her: Yeah, took me a moment to realize who you where
Interpretation: ****, he did call...
Me: Ah, I see, so hows it going?
Interpretation: I don't have much to say, hopefully you'll carry the conversation...
Her: Hey.... can I call you back, I got to console my roomate
Interpretation: You wish....
Me: Yeah, sure. Thats cool. Bye
Interpretation: I wonder what would Pradeep have done?
Her: Bye
Interpretation: Don't y'all call back now, y'hear!

Yeah so... I don't know.

Some things to remember:

1. Women will give their number to guys whether they are interested in them or not. If all you are looking for is her number and she isn't interested, why shouldn't she give it to you if she knows you will go away once you get it?
2. Getting her real number doesn't mean she's interested. She'll give you her real number if she isn't interested because she isn't quick enough to think of a fake number off the top of her head (don't laugh).
3. Number's are overrated. What do you really want from a woman you've just met? Another meeting, right? Is it necessary to get her number first? HELL NO! If you want to get together with a woman at a later time, why not tell her; she's right in front of you! You'll have to have a specific day and place in mind to make this work though (no, you can't just ask and run away, you need a plan). If she's truly interested, she'll agree and there's a higher possibility that she will give you her real telephone number in case you can't make it and would need to get in touch with her to reschedule.

 

[Maxtro]

Some things to remember:

1. Women will give their number to guys whether they are interested in them or not. If all you are looking for is her number and she isn't interested, why shouldn't she give it to you if she knows you will go away once you get it?
2. Getting her real number doesn't mean she's interested. She'll give you her real number if she isn't interested because she isn't quick enough to think of a fake number off the top of her head (don't laugh).
3. Number's are overrated. What do you really want from a woman you've just met? Another meeting, right? Is it necessary to get her number first? HELL NO! If you want to get together with a woman at a later time, why not tell her; she's right in front of you! You'll have to have a specific day and place in mind to make this work though (no, you can't just ask and run away, you need a plan). If she's truly interested, she'll agree and there's a higher possibility that she will give you her real telephone number in case you can't make it and would need to get in touch with her to reschedule.

That is really messed up. Why doesn't she just say that she isn't interested. Does she actually think that the guy who asked her for her number will not call her? Are women really that stupid?

 

[Bvbidd]

Yes.

Not many guys actually do end up calling. lol exept for the desperate guys on this site.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

That is really messed up. Why doesn't she just that she isn't interested. Does she actually think that the guy who asked her for her number will not call her? Are women really that stupid?

No, they aren't stupid. They just really have a hard time actually saying the words "I'm not really interested." Unless they are a frozen hearted, man hating, bull-dyke feminazi of course.

Alright, that or if they are surrounded by their drunken girlfriends in a club and they have combined their individual "powers of the poon" into one huge poonani tsunami.

 

[Maxtro]

No, they aren't stupid. They just really have a hard time actually saying the words "I'm not really interested." Unless they are a frozen hearted, man hating, bull-dyke feminazi of course.

Alright, that or if they are surrounded by their drunken girlfriends in a club and they have combined their individual "powers of the poon" into one huge poonani tsunami.

Now that I think about it, my Interpersonal Communication professor calls it woman ese (Why is that blocked by the filter?). So much to learn about this game.

BTW love the poonani tsunami

 

[zerocelcius]

Unless you build rapport during the approach you really shouldn't call her. WHY? What are you going to talk about>?

The time you got her #.?!

Without rapport you have nothing.

Well you have her #.

But you already have all the #'s you will ever need. It is called a 'Phone Book.'

And unless you build rapport: That phone book is just as good as getting her #.

And that is another reason I hate the 'so called DA' that is going around here like the flu!

 

[Phyzzle]

Why doesn't she just say that she isn't interested.

I'll tell you why!!

Because the first words out of your mouth will be "Why not?" (Please don't even try to deny this.)

So WTF, now she has to make up this polite, verbal explanation of why she doesn't like some strange guy?? Fvck that. You cannot go expecting any fellow human being to go to that much trouble for a random stranger.

 

[Maxtro]

I'll tell you why!!

Because the first words out of your mouth will be "Why not?" (Please don't even try to deny this.)

So WTF, now she has to make up this polite, verbal explanation of why she doesn't like some strange guy?? Fvck that. You cannot go expecting any fellow human being to go to that much trouble for a random stranger.

Actually, I wouldn't say why not. If she's not interested then I know she isn't interested. It's pointless to try and convince somebody to be attracted to you. This is espically true if it's just some random girl I've met for the first time. But if it is a girl that I've spoken with on several occasions and I know her than I will ask something similar to why not but deffinetly not in those words.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Reread that conversation...

YOU DIDN'T OFFER NO VALUE

You basically called and then asked how's it going. Of course your going to blow it.

 

[funnyshortfeet]

I must be doing something wrong. I can get the number but no further then the call, which lasted 20 seconds...

Me: (her name)?
Her: Yeah?
Me: Hey, its slitherjef, whats going on?
Her: Hey... (sounding suprised)
Me: You sound suprised
Her: Yeah, took me a moment to realize who you where
Me: Ah, I see, so hows it going?
Her: Hey.... can I call you back, I got to console my roomate
Me: Yeah, sure. Thats cool. Bye
Her: Bye

Yeah so... I don't know.

Hey do this.. Pretend you know her really well before calling her - yea call this chick again right now.


You: Hey, Jessie, listen up.. I'm going for a coffee to Star Bucks, would you like to join me, so I could see if you qualified to be with me?

Her: ................. NOOOO

You: Ok then, your loss..


High value voice throughout, well pitched, proper pauses, confident.. Just do it, don't think about it.



Write back with results.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'll tell you why!!

Because the first words out of your mouth will be "Why not?" (Please don't even try to deny this.)

So WTF, now she has to make up this polite, verbal explanation of why she doesn't like some strange guy?? Fvck that. You cannot go expecting any fellow human being to go to that much trouble for a random stranger.

And this is why it's easier for her to just give you a phone number, even if it is hers. It much easier to just ignore you from afar.

 

[slitherjef]

Just an update. I ran into her today at work. She said hey and told me she was sorry for not callin back (following a bit). I told her it was all good, I had to fix a pc then went on my way. I ran into her a bit later on break so I started talking to her more. Mostly me asking stuff she does give me long answers. I told her a bit of info about my self on the subject we where on. I told her I was a drop out. She ask what grade I dropped out at an I told her 10th at that point we get interupted and we each start talking to the person interupting us.

I think she is a cool chick. I like her. Seems like she would fun to hang out with. But there is probably nothing there
Or she is just not interested.

I don't think she is going to be in the store much longer. She is leaving to china in a few months.

 

[Maxtro]

You ran into her again and you didn't make plans to do something with her?! :kick:

 

[Bvbidd]

You got nothing to lose by asking her again.

 

[slitherjef]

You got nothing to lose by asking her again.

Very true

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...I told her a bit of info about my self on the subject we where on. I told her I was a drop out....

Out of curiosity, what other tid-bits did you tell her about yourself?

 

[dav22]

Yeah not the ideal nugget of information to leave on..