"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so i broke up with my girl a month ago

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the story here is i decided to end it with my gf after listening to her bull**** lies too much, im the one that ended it ( by text might i add, ***** i kno) and i cut all contact and deleted her from fb msn etc.

so come a month forward and she must of seen this pic with me and this girl i moved to and she randomly sends me a msg saying hey u alrite (random fluff talk which would piss me off)

now i know shes an ex and that shes an ex for a reason and that i should have many other plates etc

but im not looking to make her my gf again i just want to **** her a few more times before i completly gas her from my life, one of the reasons i didnt get to **** her nearly enough was because i didnt have a free house. now i have a free house and getting a new girl and getting to that comfort stage will take wayyyyyyy too long, so what would i have to do to bring her to my house and **** her a few more times without making her my girlfriend.

i didnt reply to her text when she tried to initiate contact.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the truth is after i broke up with her she sent me one long ass text in reply to what i sent to her, i just brought her out on all her **** basically. i havent spoken to her since should i just call her out of the blue and tell her to come round? what if shes like i thought we was broken up etc.
 
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How about showing urself some Self-Respect!!! & moving on with ur Life and find some Quality Girl that actually intrests u n worth ur time.. Like u Said an Ex is an Ex for a Reason.
 
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its more about showing her no respect and using her then anything, im not looking for a quality girl im looking for a **** and duck !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stop wanting to "get back at her" its pathetic,
a true DJ would be INDIFFERENT and banging the other chicks not trying to get back and show her ....
 
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kingsam said:
stop wanting to "get back at her" its pathetic,
a true DJ would be INDIFFERENT and banging the other chicks not trying to get back and show her ....
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THIS.

Enlightenment is when you go "Hmm, I guess that's that" and move on...
 
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